{"podcast":{"title":"Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships","slug":"anger-secrets-5809386","podcast_index_feed_id":5809386,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/angersecrets/","website_url":"https://angersecrets.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/d1249324-2922-4a6d-8daa-211abc55b7ed/Anger-Secrets-Podcast-Cover-copy.jpg","author":"Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert","episode_count":204,"summary":"Most people don't look for anger management until anger starts damaging the people they love. They try to stay calm. They promise themselves they'll do better next time. They work harder to control their reactions. But the outbursts keep happening. The arguments keep escalating. The tension keeps building at home. The problem isn't simply learning to suppress anger. Lasting anger management comes from understanding anger triggers, improving emotional regulation, addressing the root causes of anger and developing healthier ways to communicate during conflict. That's what Anger Secrets is here to help you do. Hosted by anger expert Alastair Duhs, Anger Secrets is an anger management podcast that helps you understand why anger keeps coming back, how to control anger before it controls you, and how to repair the damage anger can cause in relationships and family life. Each episode explores practical strategies for anger control, emotional regulation, communication and conflict resolution, anger triggers, relationship conflict, parenting challenges and rebuilding trust after anger has damaged important relationships. You'll learn how to stop losing your temper, stay calm under pressure…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T02:17:32.529951+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386"},"episode":{"title":"165 - The 60-Second Window That Could Save Your Relationship","slug":"165-the-60-second-window-that-could-save-your-relationship","published_at":"2025-12-28T00:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/165-the-60-second-window-that-could-save-your-relationship","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386","url":"https://angersecrets.com/podcast/165-how-to-stop-fights-before-they-start","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e8dc04a3-7c9c-4c1e-adb6-aff66488610a.mp3","summary":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . You're in the middle of an argument and you know where it's headed. But what if you could change the outcome before things spiral out of control? In this essential episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals how to recognise the signs of escalating conflict and use simple, proven repair techniques to stop fights before they start and strengthen your relationship instead. Key Takeaways: -Every argument offers a choice: escalate the fight or repair the connection. -The first step to de-escalating conflict is recognising your own signs of rising anger. -Reminding yourself that the relationship matters more than “being right” helps calm tension. -Repair attempts, like a kind tone, humor, a break or physical affection can powerfully shift the dynamic. -Noticing and accepting your partner’s repair attempts builds trust and prevents emotional damage. Links referenced in this episode: angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycle angersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System","meta_description":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . You're in the middle of an argument and you know where it's headed. But what i…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":507,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/anger-secrets-5809386/episodes/165-the-60-second-window-that-could-save-your-relationship/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/165-the-60-second-window-that-could-save-your-relationship.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}