{"podcast":{"title":"Anger Secrets: Anger Management for Healthier Relationships","slug":"anger-secrets-5809386","podcast_index_feed_id":5809386,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/angersecrets/","website_url":"https://angersecrets.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/d1249324-2922-4a6d-8daa-211abc55b7ed/Anger-Secrets-Podcast-Cover-copy.jpg","author":"Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert","episode_count":204,"summary":"Most people don't look for anger management until anger starts damaging the people they love. They try to stay calm. They promise themselves they'll do better next time. They work harder to control their reactions. But the outbursts keep happening. The arguments keep escalating. The tension keeps building at home. The problem isn't simply learning to suppress anger. Lasting anger management comes from understanding anger triggers, improving emotional regulation, addressing the root causes of anger and developing healthier ways to communicate during conflict. That's what Anger Secrets is here to help you do. Hosted by anger expert Alastair Duhs, Anger Secrets is an anger management podcast that helps you understand why anger keeps coming back, how to control anger before it controls you, and how to repair the damage anger can cause in relationships and family life. Each episode explores practical strategies for anger control, emotional regulation, communication and conflict resolution, anger triggers, relationship conflict, parenting challenges and rebuilding trust after anger has damaged important relationships. You'll learn how to stop losing your temper, stay calm under pressure…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T02:17:32.529951+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386"},"episode":{"title":"163 - The Four Hidden Killers of Your Relationship","slug":"163-the-four-hidden-killers-of-your-relationship","published_at":"2025-12-14T00:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/163-the-four-hidden-killers-of-your-relationship","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386","url":"https://angersecrets.com/podcast/163-the-four-hidden-killers-of-your-relationship","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e11ce783-c086-45fe-a858-6cb9af43b17d.mp3","summary":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Most relationships don’t fall apart in one explosive moment. They unravel quietly through patterns we barely notice. In this eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals the four hidden killers that silently destroy relationships from the inside out. If your connection with your partner feels colder, more distant or just off, this episode might explain why, and what you can do about it. Key Takeaways: - Criticism, defensiveness, contempt and stonewalling are four of the most destructive behaviors in relationships. -These patterns often feel normal, but over time they erode trust, love and emotional safety. -Each “killer” has an antidote, like appreciation, responsibility or effective communication that can rebuild connection. -Anger often fuels these behaviors, making anger management a crucial step toward healthier relationships. -By learning to recognise and replace these patterns, you can stop the slow drift apart and bring warmth and closeness back into your relationship. Links referenced in this episode: angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking The Anger Cycle angersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System","meta_description":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Most relationships don’t fall apart in one explosive moment. They unravel quie…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":761,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/anger-secrets-5809386/episodes/163-the-four-hidden-killers-of-your-relationship/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-secrets-5809386/163-the-four-hidden-killers-of-your-relationship.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}