{"podcast":{"title":"Anger Management","slug":"anger-management-7096541","podcast_index_feed_id":7096541,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/anger-management/","website_url":"https://anger-management.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/4fd4f42c-11ed-4f7f-a480-3d46eb921b3f/F_yg8y5GKmpEmD4FFYxvchuZ.jpg","author":"Alastair Duhs","episode_count":82,"summary":"The Anger Management Podcast is your weekly guide to mastering your anger and creating the calm, happy and loving relationships you’ve always wanted. Join anger expert Alastair Duhs as he shares practical tips, proven techniques and game-changing strategies to help you control your anger, master your emotions and transform your relationships into sources of calm, happiness and respect. This podcast is for anyone who’s ready to break free from anger’s grip and create a life filled with peace and connection. If you're ready to take the next step toward a calmer, more fulfilling life, tune in each week and start your journey to true anger mastery. Want to learn more? Visit AngerSecrets.com.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-management-7096541"},"episode":{"title":"65 - The One Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships","slug":"65-the-one-habit-that-quietly-destroys-relationships","published_at":"2026-01-25T18:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-management-7096541/65-the-one-habit-that-quietly-destroys-relationships","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-management-7096541","url":"https://angersecrets.com/65-the-one-habit-that-quietly-destroys-relationships","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/f001e310-9ec6-4219-b871-fee0efc70190.mp3","summary":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever won an argument, only to walk away feeling tense, disconnected and strangely empty? In this insightful episode of The Anger Management Podcast , anger management expert Alastair Duhs explores one surprisingly common habit that quietly destroys relationships: the need to be right . Joined by AI co-hosts Jake and Sarah, this deep-dive conversation reveals how the urge to win arguments fuels anger, escalates conflict and slowly erodes trust and emotional safety, even in otherwise loving relationships. Through real-world examples and practical strategies, this episode shows why being “ right ” often comes at a far higher cost than we realise. Rather than focusing on blame or suppression, the discussion highlights a powerful alternative: choosing understanding over ego and calm over correctness. If you’ve ever felt stuck in repeating arguments, defensive reactions or lingering resentment, this episode offers simple, practical shifts that can dramatically change how your conversations, and relationships, feel. Key Takeaways: The need to be right is one of the biggest hidden drivers of anger and relationship breakdown. Winning an argument often makes the other person feel wrong. And that feeling damages trust. Many arguments shift from problem-solving to ego defence without us realising it. Catching the moment you start defending your ego is a crucial early warning sign. Letting go of being right doesn’t mean giving up your values — it means choosing understanding. Asking curious, open-ended questions lowers defensiveness and improves communication. Prioritising calm over correctness reduces stress and creates safer, healthier relationships. Links referenced in this episode: angersecrets…","meta_description":"For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Have you ever won an argument, only to walk away feeling tense, disconnected a…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":897,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/anger-management-7096541/episodes/65-the-one-habit-that-quietly-destroys-relationships/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-management-7096541/65-the-one-habit-that-quietly-destroys-relationships.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}