{"podcast":{"title":"Adult Child of Dysfunction","slug":"adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234","podcast_index_feed_id":6619234,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/adult-child-of-dysfunction/","website_url":"https://www.tammyvincent.com/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/ecf0d9be-074e-493b-846d-27853da44c99/G5927J5U0Gl5OyCaR4iOn5-n.png","author":"Tammy Vincent","episode_count":369,"summary":"“Child of Dysfunction” is your guide into the world of resilience and healing. Hosted by Tammy Vincent, the adult child of two alcoholic parents, this podcast delves deep into the experiences of growing up in a chaotic and dysfunctional environment, facing childhood neglect, abuse, and trauma while overcoming adversity. With personal insights and expert interviews, we explore the challenges and triumphs of adults who grew up in these toxic environments, and healed. We Learn how to navigate these profound inner wounds though a variety of modalities including, but not limited to mindfulness, NLP practices, transformational coaching. We will help people uncover the darkness and emerge into the light as confident, thriving, empowered adults. This podcast is literally for anybody that has been subject to the complexities and cruelties that life can send our way. It is for people at any stage of their healing journey, or even those that want to help a loved one navigate their pain. Tammy Vincent, a survivor and thriver, has transformed her life from the challenges of being an adult child of two alcoholic parents. With a Masters in Education and addiction and recovery certifications, she…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-16T16:23:31.132592+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234"},"episode":{"title":"E 338: Tammy's Take #29 Notice, Name, Next Step: A Simple Tool for When You Feel Triggered","slug":"e-338-tammy-s-take-29-notice-name-next-step-a-simple-tool-for-when-you-feel-triggered","published_at":"2026-06-30T08:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234/e-338-tammy-s-take-29-notice-name-next-step-a-simple-tool-for-when-you-feel-triggered","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234","url":"https://adult-child-of-dysfunction.captivate.fm/episode/e-338-tammys-take-29-notice-name-next-step-a-simple-tool-for-when-you-feel-triggered","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/47aa5376-852b-4d2d-8197-c8138a1b2c13.mp3","summary":"What if your thoughts are not always telling you the truth? For many adult children of dysfunction, anxious thoughts do not just feel like thoughts. They feel like warnings. They feel like facts. They feel like instructions we have to follow in order to stay safe. “They are mad at me.” “I am going to mess this up.” “I need to fix this.” “I should stay quiet.” “I am too much.” “I am not enough.” In this Tammy’s Takes episode, Tammy teaches a simple, practical tool you can use in the moment when anxiety, overthinking, people-pleasing, shame, or old survival patterns start taking over. Inspired by Tammy’s conversation with Dr. Elisabeth Morray, licensed psychologist and VP of Clinical at Alma, this episode explores the concept of psychological flexibility: the ability to experience hard thoughts, emotions, memories, and triggers without allowing them to make every decision for you. Tammy breaks down her Notice, Name, and Next Step Method —a three-step practice designed to help you pause, regulate your nervous system, create space from fearful thoughts, and choose a response that aligns with your values instead of your fear. In this episode, you will learn how to: Recognize when your body is reacting from an old survival pattern Get out of your racing mind and back into the present moment Understand the difference between remembering danger and being in danger Stop treating every anxious thought as a fact Create distance from thoughts like “I am not good enough” or “They are going to leave me” Identify one small, healthy next step instead of reacting from urgency Use your values as a compass when you feel confused, triggered, or overwhelmed Build self-trust one decision at a time Practice choosing yourself without needing to be perfect Healing is not about never feeling an…","meta_description":"What if your thoughts are not always telling you the truth? 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