{"podcast":{"title":"ADHD with Jenna Free","slug":"adhd-with-jenna-free-7252095","podcast_index_feed_id":7252095,"rss_url":"https://feeds.libsyn.com/557461/rss","website_url":"https://sites.libsyn.com/557461","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/6/a/2/e/6a2e470661adca93d959afa2a1bf1c87/Copy_of_ADHD_With_Jenna_Free-Podcast_Artwork_Tempalte.png","author":"Jenna Free","episode_count":65,"summary":"ADHD with Jenna Free is a podcast for adults with ADHD who are done surviving their symptoms and ready to start thriving with ADHD without the endless tips, hacks, and workarounds that have never really fixed anything. Hosted by Jenna Free, a Canadian Certified Counselor (CCC) and ADHD therapist, this show exists to give you a completely different way of understanding ADHD in adults and the signs of ADHD in women. Because the reason you're stuck, overwhelmed, and exhausted isn't a lack of willpower, it's that your brain is running in fight or flight. And once you understand that, everything changes. This podcast covers the full experience of living with adult ADHD: the real science behind procrastination in ADHD and ADHD task paralysis, ADHD executive functioning strategies that work, why ADHD and perimenopause collide in ways no one talks about, and the honest, solution-focused conversations that most ADHD podcasts aren't having. Jenna also shares her own story, what it looks like to go from chronically dysregulated to genuinely thriving, so you can see that this is actually possible for you. This show gives women with ADHD, and anyone who has ever wondered whether ADHD can be di…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-15T18:19:18.722772+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-with-jenna-free-7252095"},"episode":{"title":"EP. 40: Why Long-Term Goals Feel Impossible with ADHD (And How to Change That) | ADHD with Jenna Free","slug":"ep-40-why-long-term-goals-feel-impossible-with-adhd-and-how-to-change-that-adhd-with-jenna-free","published_at":"2025-12-29T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-with-jenna-free-7252095/ep-40-why-long-term-goals-feel-impossible-with-adhd-and-how-to-change-that-adhd-with-jenna-free","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-with-jenna-free-7252095","url":"https://86ec717b-8213-494f-90a6-575b5c86795e.libsyn.com/ep-40-why-long-term-goals-feel-impossible-with-adhd-and-how-to-change-that-adhd-with-jenna-free","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/86ec717b-8213-494f-90a6-575b5c86795e/EP._40__Why_Long-Term_Goals_Feel_Impossible_with_ADHD_And_How_to_Change_That___ADHD_with_Jenna_Free_v2.mp3?dest-id=4814301","summary":"Join the free \"A Regulated Vision for 2026\" hangout (January 8th, 10am MST) - https://www.adhdwithjennafree.com/newyears You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - www.adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Join the waitlist for ADHD Groups (starting January 27 & 28) - www.adhdwithjennafree.com/waitlist Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Why Goals Feel Exhausting 01:00 You've Only Ever Pursued Goals from a Survival State 03:00 Why Relief is Your Primary Dopamine Source 05:00 The Primal Metaphor: Running from the Bear vs Picking Berries 08:00 Why Focusing on the End Goal Keeps You Stuck 11:00 What Regulated Motivation Actually Looks Like 14:00 My Real Life Example: 7 Years Dysregulated vs 2.5 Years Regulated 17:00 Growth is a Long-Term Game 19:00 This Week's Practice: Shift from Sprint to Present Summary In this episode, I talk about why long-term goals feel impossible with ADHD - and how to actually change that. If goals feel exhausting, you have ideas but pursuing them feels overwhelming and anxiety-fueled, and you can't sustain anything long-term, you're likely dysregulated. Here's what's really happening: you've only ever pursued goals from a survival state, and survival state motivation is sprint motivation. When you're in fight or flight, your body isn't trying to help you grow - it's trying to help you survive or escape. The only motivation that works in that state is urgency, shame, fear, and guilt. This is why you can't start a project until the deadline is hours away, why you crash after submitting something, and why you burn out trying to fix your whole life in a weekend. I share a powerful analogy: you're trying to climb a mountain with \"run from the bear\" energy, but all meaningful goals require \"walk the mountain path to pick berries\" energy. These are two comp…","meta_description":"Join the free \"A Regulated Vision for 2026\" hangout (January 8th, 10am MST) - https://www.adhdwithjennafree.com/newyears You can get your free ADHD Regula…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1415,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/adhd-with-jenna-free-7252095/episodes/ep-40-why-long-term-goals-feel-impossible-with-adhd-and-how-to-change-that-adhd-with-jenna-free/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-with-jenna-free-7252095/ep-40-why-long-term-goals-feel-impossible-with-adhd-and-how-to-change-that-adhd-with-jenna-free.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}