{"podcast":{"title":"ADHD Mums","slug":"adhd-mums-6363089","podcast_index_feed_id":6363089,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/adhdmums/","website_url":"https://www.adhdmums.com.au/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/36034d34-12a3-48c5-b350-38b0ca05e100/image.jpg","author":"Jane McFadden","episode_count":270,"summary":"Being a mum is hard enough. Being a mum with ADHD — or raising neurodivergent kids is a whole different level. ADHD Mums is the unfiltered, science-meets-reality podcast hosted by Jane McFadden, educational neuroscientist, advocate, and mother of three. This isn’t another polished parenting show with 'ten easy tips.' It’s real stories, confessions we’re not supposed to say out loud, and the research that explains why so many of us are running on empty. Every week you’ll hear: 🎙️ Confessions — raw, anonymous truths from mums navigating rage, burnout, and survival. 🧠 Expert insights — from neuroscientists, clinicians, and policy leaders on ADHD, autism, and mental health. 💬 Advocacy in action — exposing ADHD medication shortages, NDIS red tape, and the hidden costs mothers carry. With over 1 million downloads already tuning in from across the world, the podcast has already influenced ADHD reforms in Australia, been featured in national media, and pushed politicians to answer the questions mothers are asking. If you’ve ever screamed in the car, forgotten every form until the night before, or wondered if you’re the only one falling apart — this podcast is your proof that you’re not br…","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089"},"episode":{"title":"88. When Being the ‘Good Student’ Is Actually Hurting Your Child","slug":"88-when-being-the-good-student-is-actually-hurting-your-child","published_at":"2026-03-09T19:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089/88-when-being-the-good-student-is-actually-hurting-your-child","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089","url":"https://adhdmums.com.au/captivate/good-student-cost","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c5b627be-80ca-418a-8b6a-f4bebc7cae7a.mp3","summary":"You're told your child is doing great at school. 'Wish I had more like her' 'No issues here.' But every afternoon at 3pm something else happens. The car door shuts. And the child who 'had a great day' collapses. The meltdown doesn't start at school. It starts when the mask comes off. For many Mums, this creates a strange kind of confusion. School says everything is fine. But home tells a completely different story. In this episode we unpack the cost of being the 'good' student — the child who holds it together in the classroom while quietly burning through their nervous system capacity all day. Because when struggle isn't loud, it often gets missed. And the kids who look like they are coping the best are sometimes the ones paying the highest price. WHAT WE COVER – Why the child who 'behaves well' can still be in serious distress – The difference between internalising and externalising stress in classrooms – How masking hides the real effort many neurodivergent kids are using just to get through the day – Why teachers often don't see the struggle happening under the surface – The after-school collapse and what it actually tells you about capacity – Why asking a child to 'just speak up' about their needs doesn't work for many autistic and ADHD kids – How small classroom adjustments can dramatically reduce invisible stress – Why trust between teacher and student matters more than most people realise – The structural limits inside school systems that leave internalising kids unsupported THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF… – Your child is described as a 'model student' but falls apart the moment they get home – School says everything is fine but your child is exhausted, anxious or melting down daily – Your child masks heavily in public but collapses in safe spaces – You've been tol…","meta_description":"You're told your child is doing great at school. 'Wish I had more like her' 'No issues here.' But every afternoon at 3pm something else happens. The car d…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2770,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/adhd-mums-6363089/episodes/88-when-being-the-good-student-is-actually-hurting-your-child/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089/88-when-being-the-good-student-is-actually-hurting-your-child.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}