{"podcast":{"title":"ADHD Mums","slug":"adhd-mums-6363089","podcast_index_feed_id":6363089,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/adhdmums/","website_url":"https://www.adhdmums.com.au/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/36034d34-12a3-48c5-b350-38b0ca05e100/image.jpg","author":"Jane McFadden","episode_count":270,"summary":"Being a mum is hard enough. Being a mum with ADHD — or raising neurodivergent kids is a whole different level. ADHD Mums is the unfiltered, science-meets-reality podcast hosted by Jane McFadden, educational neuroscientist, advocate, and mother of three. This isn’t another polished parenting show with 'ten easy tips.' It’s real stories, confessions we’re not supposed to say out loud, and the research that explains why so many of us are running on empty. Every week you’ll hear: 🎙️ Confessions — raw, anonymous truths from mums navigating rage, burnout, and survival. 🧠 Expert insights — from neuroscientists, clinicians, and policy leaders on ADHD, autism, and mental health. 💬 Advocacy in action — exposing ADHD medication shortages, NDIS red tape, and the hidden costs mothers carry. With over 1 million downloads already tuning in from across the world, the podcast has already influenced ADHD reforms in Australia, been featured in national media, and pushed politicians to answer the questions mothers are asking. If you’ve ever screamed in the car, forgotten every form until the night before, or wondered if you’re the only one falling apart — this podcast is your proof that you’re not br…","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089"},"episode":{"title":"87.When You Stay Calm at School — And Leave Feeling Like You Didn’t Do Enough","slug":"87-when-you-stay-calm-at-school-and-leave-feeling-like-you-didn-t-do-enough","published_at":"2026-03-04T19:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089/87-when-you-stay-calm-at-school-and-leave-feeling-like-you-didn-t-do-enough","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089","url":"https://adhdmums.com.au/captivate/88-when-being-reasonable-gets-you-nowhere-at-school","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/8d07fe78-be1b-4325-b0fa-ef36b813a81e.mp3","summary":"You’ve sent the emails. You’ve attended the meetings. You’ve tried to be calm, collaborative, reasonable. And nothing changes. Then suddenly something serious happens — a suspension, an incident, a formal complaint — and overnight the school moves quickly. So what just happened? This episode unpacks the moment many ADHD mums eventually hit: the point where being reasonable stops working — and why that happens inside the school system. Because for many families, the problem isn’t communication. It’s understanding what schools actually respond to, what they quietly ignore, and how the system itself shapes those responses. WHAT WE COVER Why being calm, collaborative and ‘reasonable’ often doesn’t move schools What schools actually respond to — and what gets quietly ignored Why emotional emails and long explanations often backfire The reality behind ‘reasonable adjustments’ under Australian education law Why some adjustments are refused even when they appear simple The funding model most parents have never heard of: NCCD Why teachers may genuinely say they can’t do something — even when it seems obvious The difference between fairness and inclusion in schools When escalating a complaint becomes necessary (and how to do it properly) Why documentation, meeting notes and evidence matter far more than emotion THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF… You feel like you’ve been polite, patient and collaborative… and nothing has changed Your child’s school says they ‘can’t’ implement adjustments that seem reasonable You’ve asked for incident reports or documentation and never received them Meetings feel confusing or adversarial You’re not sure when to keep negotiating and when to escalate You’re trying to advocate for your child without becoming ‘that parent’ ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST Sara Hocking E…","meta_description":"You’ve sent the emails. You’ve attended the meetings. You’ve tried to be calm, collaborative, reasonable. And nothing changes. Then suddenly something ser…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2079,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/adhd-mums-6363089/episodes/87-when-you-stay-calm-at-school-and-leave-feeling-like-you-didn-t-do-enough/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-mums-6363089/87-when-you-stay-calm-at-school-and-leave-feeling-like-you-didn-t-do-enough.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}