{"podcast":{"title":"A Girls Perspective Podcast","slug":"a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491","podcast_index_feed_id":7088491,"rss_url":"https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96","website_url":"https://www.agirlsperspective.com/","image_url":"https://assets.pippa.io/shows/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96/1758167392139-9c4b59e5-f207-466e-b164-ccbe0abe271b.jpeg","author":"Sweetheart Creations LLC","episode_count":90,"summary":"We’re not famous. We’re not gurus. We’re just two grown women with real life experiences and a whole lot of opinions. Our friendship isn’t perfect, but it’s a damn good model of what it looks like when two people actually show up for each other. If you want a conversation between real friends talking about real adult experiences, and you want to feel like you’re part of it, we’re your girls. From friendship wins/fails to career changes, dating after 30, and your body changing while you’re just minding your business… we talk about the real-life stuff the average person deals with when they don’t have celebrity money or resources. We speak our minds. Yes, it’s unfiltered and sometimes offensive. But maybe that’s exactly what you need. Wherever you are in your life, we’ve likely been there too. So come share your story, come laugh with us, get angry with us, cry with us. Do all the things that true friends do. We are your virtual friends. Welcome to A Girls Perspective. If you want a quick hit before diving into a full episode, check out our companion micro-podcast, AGP Micro Dosed. Weekly 90-second conversations for the girl who’s short on time but still wants the vibe. 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This week, we’re talking about boundaries, communication, and why people sometimes hide things in relationships just to get a moment of peace. From secretly taking PTO days to avoiding expectations at home, we get into the real tension between honesty and needing space. We also break down the idea that “single women keep women single,” and why that mindset ignores real experiences, dating patterns, and personal growth. Because for a lot of people, stepping away from relationships isn’t influence—it’s self-preservation. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, needed time to yourself, struggled with relationship expectations, or questioned why dating feels repetitive, this episode will hit in a very real way. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast wherever you listen. Timestamps: 00:00 – Weekly Reddit: Secret PTO and lying about work 01:30 – Getting caught doing the SAME thing 02:30 – Is the secrecy the real problem? 04:00 – The best way to use PTO (mid-week days) 05:30 – Calling off vs actually taking PTO 06:30 – “I don’t want to be asked to do anything” 07:30 – Relationship expectations vs wanting peace 08:30 – Holidays not feeling like real breaks 09:30 – Couples secretly doing the same thing 12:00 – “Single women keep women single” debate 13:30 – Married vs single advice (who’s actually worse?) 15:00 – Why people stay or leave relationships 16:30 – Blaming others vs self-awareness 17:30 – Dating patterns and repeated experiences 18:30 – Why you need time alone after relationships 19:30 – Therapy, self-reflection, and real growth 20:30 – Road rage story (unhinged moment) 22:30 – Why being “the villain” sometimes feels good 24:00 – Subscription fatigue (Amazon, YouTub…","meta_description":"Sometimes you’re not trying to be sneaky… you just want a break without being asked to do anything. 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