{"podcast":{"title":"A Girls Perspective Podcast","slug":"a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491","podcast_index_feed_id":7088491,"rss_url":"https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96","website_url":"https://www.agirlsperspective.com/","image_url":"https://assets.pippa.io/shows/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96/1758167392139-9c4b59e5-f207-466e-b164-ccbe0abe271b.jpeg","author":"Sweetheart Creations LLC","episode_count":90,"summary":"We’re not famous. We’re not gurus. We’re just two grown women with real life experiences and a whole lot of opinions. Our friendship isn’t perfect, but it’s a damn good model of what it looks like when two people actually show up for each other. If you want a conversation between real friends talking about real adult experiences, and you want to feel like you’re part of it, we’re your girls. From friendship wins/fails to career changes, dating after 30, and your body changing while you’re just minding your business… we talk about the real-life stuff the average person deals with when they don’t have celebrity money or resources. We speak our minds. Yes, it’s unfiltered and sometimes offensive. But maybe that’s exactly what you need. Wherever you are in your life, we’ve likely been there too. So come share your story, come laugh with us, get angry with us, cry with us. Do all the things that true friends do. We are your virtual friends. Welcome to A Girls Perspective. If you want a quick hit before diving into a full episode, check out our companion micro-podcast, AGP Micro Dosed. Weekly 90-second conversations for the girl who’s short on time but still wants the vibe. Brought to y…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-17T20:19:10.002710+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491"},"episode":{"title":"#73 - She Set Me Up… Then Blamed Me","slug":"73-she-set-me-up-then-blamed-me","published_at":"2026-04-22T09:15:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491/73-she-set-me-up-then-blamed-me","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491","url":"https://shows.acast.com/a-girls-perspective-podcast/episodes/73-she-set-me-up-then-blamed-me","audio_url":"https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96/e/69e6985307ecece42a17c7e3/media.mp3","summary":"This week, we’re talking about friendship tests, silent expectations, being “invited” without actually being invited, and how adult friendships start feeling transactional when people refuse to communicate directly. We get into the drink story that sparked the whole conversation, why keeping score with your friends never ends well, and how unspoken resentment can turn something small into a full friendship breakup. We also get into online opinions, the Bali girl trip debate, Jocelyn going to a podcast summit to network for AGP, a chaotic round of Pick Your Poison, scary movie favorites, and a Batman vs. Iron Man debate that somehow becomes a real moral argument. So if you’re dealing with friendship struggles, adulthood struggles, personal growth, communication issues, or just trying to find your people without all the weird energy, this episode will hit. Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. Show notes In this episode: A friend who keeps “testing” people instead of communicating Why paying for the drink wasn’t really the issue How helping someone move turned into delayed resentment The difference between being told about plans and actually being invited The Bali birthday trip story and why that argument went left Jocelyn’s podcast summit recap and networking for AGP Pick Your Poison chaos Favorite scary movies Batman vs. Iron Man and why Jade thinks Batman is not a hero and basically a criminal Timestamps: 00:00 – Weekly Reddit: the friend who keeps “testing” people 04:10 – Was the drink comment petty too? 07:55 – Appreciation, helping friends move, and transactional energy 08:40 – Why avoiding confrontation makes it worse 09:20 – The kinds of friends we do not deal with 10:05 – “If you tell me your plans, am I invited?” 11:05 – The Bali birthday tr…","meta_description":"This week, we’re talking about friendship tests, silent expectations, being “invited” without actually being invited, and how adult friendships start feel…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4384,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491/episodes/73-she-set-me-up-then-blamed-me/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-girls-perspective-podcast-7088491/73-she-set-me-up-then-blamed-me.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}