# 507: How To Handle Big Emotions in Kids Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/wire-talk-with-karen-stubbs-639214/507-how-to-handle-big-emotions-in-kids Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/wire-talk-with-karen-stubbs-639214/507-how-to-handle-big-emotions-in-kids.md Podcast: [Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs](https://stenobird.com/podcast/wire-talk-with-karen-stubbs-639214) Published: 2026-03-03T08:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/f96aa473 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/f96aa473/e62ef2ec.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/wire-talk-with-karen-stubbs-639214/episodes/507-how-to-handle-big-emotions-in-kids Duration seconds: 1160 ## Resource Today Karen and Emily tackle listener questions about kids with big emotions; the pouters, the perfectionists, the rule followers, and the fiercely competitive. Whether your child melts down when they lose, struggles to say they’re having fun, or takes rules a little too seriously, this episode will help you parent the way they’re wired instead of fighting against it. Episode Recap: Join Wire Talk+, our VIP club for listeners (3:45) Is it okay to let my sensitive child pout in his room? (4:27) My “blue child” never says she’s having fun and it’s discouraging to me (9:55) How do I handle an overly strict rule follower? (13:30) My 9 yr old cannot bear losing - should I give him consequences for meltdowns? (17:28) You’re not going to change the way your kid is wired, but you can understand it (20:00) Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” Discussion Questions: Does my child need space or correction in emotional moments? Am I reacting to their personality, or am I training their character? Do I expect my child to respond emotionally the way I would? Where do I need to be more consistent with consequences? How can I model emotional regulation in my own responses? Resources: Listen to the rest of our conversation on WT+: boaw.mom/insider Send us your questions through the BOAW Moms app [ Apple ] [ Google Play ] Check out our BRAND NEW Bible study: How To Teach Your Kids the Bible Check out Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas Want More of This Conversation? Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today Karen is sharing insights on parenting “blue” temperaments specifically. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/wire-talk-with-karen-stubbs-639214/episodes/507-how-to-handle-big-emotions-in-kids/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/wire-talk-with-karen-stubbs-639214/507-how-to-handle-big-emotions-in-kids.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.