# 29. What We Can Learn From 3000 Years of Love Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/wild-geese-6890223/29-what-we-can-learn-from-3000-years-of-love Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/wild-geese-6890223/29-what-we-can-learn-from-3000-years-of-love.md Podcast: [Wild Geese](https://stenobird.com/podcast/wild-geese-6890223) Published: 2025-06-24T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/anna-howard1/episodes/29--What-We-Can-Learn-From-3000-Years-of-Love-e34kp50 Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/f5102908/podcast/play/104538720/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-5-23%2F402680930-44100-2-79a3ca4325e55.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/wild-geese-6890223/episodes/29-what-we-can-learn-from-3000-years-of-love Duration seconds: 1604 ## Resource Why is love SO intertwined with ownership? Let's cut that sh*t out! Resources mentioned: - All About Love by Bell Hooks - what the self help industry has wrong about...everything by Jamila Bradley - Love is Not Enough by Museguided - Fake Fairness is Killing Our Relationships -- And It's Everywhere - George Akolade Coker's Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord Timestamps: 00:00 - intro 00:53 - Brilliant Sponsorship 02:03 - The flaws in our language around romantic relationships03:30 - pathologizing desire 06:10 - extracting ownership from love 11:20 - Why we're all afraid of commitment14:11 - A brief and incomplete history of love & marriage 17:00 - How to introduce equity to romantic relationships 22:00 - Relationship Anarchy 24:25 - Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord Join my newsletter ⛅ Wild Geese Instagram 📓 Anna's Substack 💌 Anna's Podcast Production Services To inquire about potential collaborations, please email hello@annacorinneproductions.com ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/wild-geese-6890223/episodes/29-what-we-can-learn-from-3000-years-of-love/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/wild-geese-6890223/29-what-we-can-learn-from-3000-years-of-love.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.