# My Wife Must Take My Surname - Marriage and Hustle Culture | WHOT Podcast S4 Ep18

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Podcast: [WHOT Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/whot-podcast-7148848)
Published: 2026-05-15T18:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ho3-studio/episodes/My-Wife-Must-Take-My-Surname---Marriage-and-Hustle-Culture--WHOT-Podcast-S4-Ep18-e3jdf5f
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Duration seconds: 4387

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This episode got HEATED🥵We talked about:• women changing surnames after marriage• patriarchy and identity loss• religion vs culture• hyphenating surnames• why many Nigerians are rejecting low paying jobs• toxic hustle culture• burnout, survival and unrealistic work expectationsAt what point does “hard work” become self-destruction?And should marriage require someone to lose part of their identity?Drop your thoughts in the comments!#WHOTPodcast #Nigeria #Marriage #HustleCulture

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