# WHEN DATING HURTS

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Official site: https://www.whendatinghurts.com/
Author: Bill Mitchell
Episodes: 369

## Resource

A "must-listen-to" podcast on dating abuse and domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence. . Hosted by Bill Mitchell, author of the memoir, WHEN DATING HURTS (Amazon), this book is about the murder of his daughter by her ex-boyfriend. Bill and his wife, Michele, lost Kristin to dating violence. She was brutally murdered in June 2005, just 20 days after her college graduation. FACT: 1 in 3 WOMEN suffer serious physical violence at the hands of intimate partners during their lifetimes. Typically, it happens between the ages of 16-24. But can happen at any age. It doesn't need to happen. Bill interviews experts with key experiences in dating and domestic violence: • Actual survivors of intimate partner violence (dating abuse and domestic violence) • "DV" agency counselors • Law enforcement professionals • Parents of children who were either lost to, or somehow survived, dating violence After listening to the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, be sure to share it with those who need to hear it... Remember the 1 in 3 women statistic. It is real. The WHEN DATING HURTS memoir (paperback, eBook, audiobook) is only available on Amazon. Bill Mitchell's email: BillMitchell@WhenDating…

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## Episodes
- [369. Ghosting Part 2 - When Your Partner Disappears to Control You](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/369-ghosting-part-2-when-your-partner-disappears-to-control-you) — 2026-07-30T09:00:00+00:00
- [363. Jena Jake - Understanding Attraction Patterns & Warning Signs in Abusive Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/363-jena-jake-understanding-attraction-patterns-warning-signs-in-abusive-relationships) — 2026-07-28T09:00:00+00:00
- [367. Dog Whistles - Covert Abuse Signals Abusers use to Control You](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/367-dog-whistles-covert-abuse-signals-abusers-use-to-control-you) — 2026-07-26T09:00:00+00:00
- [366. Breadcrumbing - How We become Strung Along by Abusers](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/366-breadcrumbing-how-we-become-strung-along-by-abusers) — 2026-07-23T09:00:00+00:00
- [362. Megan Margherio - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - "Everwoven": Overcoming Stepbrother Abuse & Abusive Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/362-megan-margherio-pt-2-of-2-pts-everwoven-overcoming-stepbrother-abuse-abusive-marriage) — 2026-07-21T09:30:00+00:00
- [361. Megan Margherio - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - "Everwoven": Overcoming Stepbrother Abuse & Abusive Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/361-megan-margherio-pt-1-of-2-pts-everwoven-overcoming-stepbrother-abuse-abusive-marriage) — 2026-07-21T09:00:00+00:00
- [365. Pocketing - How We Become Hidden Out of View by Abusers](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/365-pocketing-how-we-become-hidden-out-of-view-by-abusers) — 2026-07-19T09:00:00+00:00
- [364. Hoovering - How We are Vacuumed Back into Abusive Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/364-hoovering-how-we-are-vacuumed-back-into-abusive-relationships) — 2026-07-16T09:00:00+00:00
- [360. Bill Mitchell's Appearance on "This Is Actually Happening" Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/360-bill-mitchell-s-appearance-on-this-is-actually-happening-podcast) — 2026-07-14T09:00:00+00:00
- [353. Coercive Control - How to Detect It. How to Break Free.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/353-coercive-control-how-to-detect-it-how-to-break-free) — 2026-07-12T09:00:00+00:00
- [352. Trauma Bonding - What It Is. How To Break Free.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/352-trauma-bonding-what-it-is-how-to-break-free) — 2026-07-09T09:00:00+00:00
- [359. Kayleigh - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Abused for 15 Years. Love Bombing, Red Flags & Breaking Free from Controlling Husband](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/359-kayleigh-pt-2-of-2-pts-abused-for-15-years-love-bombing-red-flags-breaking-free-from-controlling-husband) — 2026-07-07T09:30:00+00:00
- [358. Kayleigh - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Abused for 15 Years. Love Bombing, Red Flags & Breaking Free from Controlling Husband](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/358-kayleigh-pt-1-of-2-pts-abused-for-15-years-love-bombing-red-flags-breaking-free-from-controlling-husband) — 2026-07-07T09:00:00+00:00
- [351. Fast Tracking - What It Feels Like. How to Stop It.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/351-fast-tracking-what-it-feels-like-how-to-stop-it) — 2026-07-05T09:00:00+00:00
- [350. Blame Shifting -- What It Is. How to Deal With It.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/350-blame-shifting-what-it-is-how-to-deal-with-it) — 2026-07-02T09:00:00+00:00
- [357. Rereleasing Brenda - Losing Her Freedom to an Abuser Who Refused to Let Go](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/357-rereleasing-brenda-losing-her-freedom-to-an-abuser-who-refused-to-let-go) — 2026-06-30T09:00:00+00:00
- [342. How Abusers use Digital Technology to Control and Stalk](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/342-how-abusers-use-digital-technology-to-control-and-stalk) — 2026-06-28T09:00:00+00:00
- [354. Anna Astwood Speaks about Her New Book, "But He Said He Loved Me"](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/354-anna-astwood-speaks-about-her-new-book-but-he-said-he-loved-me) — 2026-06-25T09:00:00+00:00
- [356. Rereleasing Erin's Story - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - The Nightmare of Escaping Charlie's Demands & Total Control](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/356-rereleasing-erin-s-story-pt-2-of-2-pts-the-nightmare-of-escaping-charlie-s-demands-total-control) — 2026-06-23T09:30:00+00:00
- [355. Rereleasing Erin's Story - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - The Nightmare of Escaping Charlie's Demands & Total Control](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/355-rereleasing-erin-s-story-pt-1-of-2-pts-the-nightmare-of-escaping-charlie-s-demands-total-control) — 2026-06-23T09:00:00+00:00
- [348. Devaluation in an Abusive Relationship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/348-devaluation-in-an-abusive-relationship) — 2026-06-21T09:00:00+00:00
- [346. "Flying Monkeys" - What They Are and How to Deal with Them](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/346-understanding-flying-monkeys-what-they-are-and-how-to-deal-with-them) — 2026-06-18T09:00:00+00:00
- [349. Karan’s Story: A Therapist’s Experience with Domestic Abuse, Trauma & Resilience](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/349-karan-s-story-a-therapist-s-experience-with-domestic-abuse-trauma-resilience) — 2026-06-16T09:00:00+00:00
- [347. Financial Abuse in Abusive Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/347-financial-abuse-in-abusive-relationships) — 2026-06-14T09:00:00+00:00
- [336. What You Need to Know About Love Bombing](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/336-what-you-need-to-know-about-love-bombing) — 2026-06-11T09:00:00+00:00
- [345. Julia - Pt 2 of 2 Pts. - Love Bombing to Gaslighting: A Canadian Survivor’s Toxic Ex-Husband Story](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/345-julia-pt-2-of-2-pts-love-bombing-to-gaslighting-a-canadian-survivor-s-toxic-ex-husband-story) — 2026-06-09T09:30:00+00:00
- [344. Julia - Pt 1 of 2 Pts. - Love Bombing to Gaslighting: A Canadian Survivor’s Toxic Ex-Husband Story](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/344-julia-pt-1-of-2-pts-love-bombing-to-gaslighting-a-canadian-survivor-s-toxic-ex-husband-story) — 2026-06-09T09:00:00+00:00
- [343. Gaslighting: How it Sounds, Works, and Steals Your Reality](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/343-gaslighting-how-it-sounds-works-and-steals-your-reality) — 2026-06-07T09:00:00+00:00
- [340. What Future Faking Is](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/340-what-future-faking-is) — 2026-06-04T09:00:00+00:00
- [343. Tricia Gray: From Trauma to Triumph – The Inspiring Story Behind "The Lotus Legacy" Memoir](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/343-tricia-gray-from-trauma-to-triumph-the-inspiring-story-behind-the-lotus-legacy-memoir) — 2026-06-02T09:00:00+00:00
- [341. What Ghosting Really Is](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/341-what-ghosting-really-is) — 2026-05-30T09:00:00+00:00
- [339. What Gaslighting Really Is](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/339-what-gaslighting-really-is) — 2026-05-28T09:00:00+00:00
- [Rereleasing - 219. Anna Astwood - Pt 2 of 2 - Once a Dating Violence Victim. Today, an Active Survivor.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/rereleasing-219-anna-astwood-pt-2-of-2-once-a-dating-violence-victim-today-an-active-survivor) — 2026-05-26T09:05:00+00:00
- [Rereleasing - 218. Anna Astwood - Pt 1 of 2 - Once a Dating Violence Victim. Today, an Active Survivor.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/rereleasing-218-anna-astwood-pt-1-of-2-once-a-dating-violence-victim-today-an-active-survivor) — 2026-05-26T09:00:00+00:00
- [338. What You Need to Know About Coercive Control](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/338-what-you-need-to-know-about-coercive-control) — 2026-05-24T09:00:00+00:00
- [337. What You Need to Know About Escalation](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/337-what-you-need-to-know-about-escalation) — 2026-05-22T09:00:00+00:00
- [335. Anne - Unshakeable Army Veteran Lost Herself in an Abusive Relationship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/335-anne-unshakeable-army-veteran-lost-herself-in-an-abusive-relationship) — 2026-05-19T09:00:00+00:00
- [334. Crystal - Pt 2 of 2 - Power Imbalances & Hidden Masks: Stopping Patterns of Emotional Abuse](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/334-crystal-pt-2-of-2-power-imbalances-hidden-masks-stopping-patterns-of-emotional-abuse) — 2026-05-12T12:00:00+00:00
- [333. Crystal - Pt 1 of 2 - Power Imbalances & Hidden Masks: Stopping Patterns of Emotional Abuse](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/333-crystal-pt-1-of-2-power-imbalances-hidden-masks-stopping-patterns-of-emotional-abuse) — 2026-05-12T11:50:00+00:00
- [331. Rerelease of "Surviving Abuse from My Wife: Hidden Truths About Men DV Victims"](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/331-rerelease-of-surviving-abuse-from-my-wife-hidden-truths-about-men-dv-victims) — 2026-05-05T09:00:00+00:00
- [330. Riel - Pt 2 0f 2 Pts - Narcissistic Abuse Survivor: 20 Years of DARVO & Childhood Trauma](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/330-riel-pt-2-0f-2-pts-narcissistic-abuse-survivor-20-years-of-darvo-childhood-trauma) — 2026-04-28T09:05:00+00:00
- [329. Riel - Pt 1 0f 2 Pts - Narcissistic Abuse Survivor: 20 Years of DARVO & Childhood Trauma](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/329-riel-pt-1-0f-2-pts-narcissistic-abuse-survivor-20-years-of-darvo-childhood-trauma) — 2026-04-28T09:00:00+00:00
- [328. Sarah Hanson - Pt 2 of 2 - Love-Bombed, Isolated, and Reclaiming Power](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/328-sarah-hanson-pt-2-of-2-love-bombed-isolated-and-reclaiming-power) — 2026-04-21T09:05:00+00:00
- [327. Sarah Hanson - Pt 1 of 2 - Love-Bombed, Isolated, and Reclaiming Power](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/327-sarah-hanson-pt-1-of-2-love-bombed-isolated-and-reclaiming-power) — 2026-04-21T09:00:00+00:00
- [332. Escaping the Conveyor Belt of Chaos: Two Abuse Survivor Stories](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/332-escaping-the-conveyor-belt-of-chaos-two-abuse-survivor-stories) — 2026-04-16T09:00:00+00:00
- [326. (Rerelease) J R Waltemyer - Protecting and Enforcing Victims' Rights](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/326-rerelease-j-r-waltemyer-protecting-and-enforcing-victims-rights) — 2026-04-14T09:00:00+00:00
- [325. Mae Scott's Story Pt 2 of 2 Pts: A Raw Look at Narcissistic Abuse, Coercive Control, and Betrayal by In-Laws](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/325-mae-scott-s-story-pt-2-of-2-pts-a-raw-look-at-narcissistic-abuse-coercive-control-and-betrayal-by-in-laws) — 2026-04-07T09:05:00+00:00
- [324. Mae Scott's Story Pt 1 of 2 Pts: A Raw Look at Narcissistic Abuse, Coercive Control, and Betrayal by In-Laws](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/324-mae-scott-s-story-pt-1-of-2-pts-a-raw-look-at-narcissistic-abuse-coercive-control-and-betrayal-by-in-laws) — 2026-04-07T09:00:00+00:00
- [323. Emma - Pt 3 of 3 - A Young Woman's Story of Dating Abuse and Survival](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/323-emma-pt-3-of-3-a-young-woman-s-story-of-dating-abuse-and-survival) — 2026-03-31T09:10:00+00:00
- [322. Emma - Pt 2 of 3 - A Young Woman's Story of Dating Abuse and Survival](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/322-emma-pt-2-of-3-a-young-woman-s-story-of-dating-abuse-and-survival) — 2026-03-31T09:05:00+00:00
- [321. Emma - Pt 1 of 3 - A Young Woman's Story of Dating Abuse and Survival](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/321-emma-pt-1-of-3-a-young-woman-s-story-of-dating-abuse-and-survival) — 2026-03-31T09:00:00+00:00
- [320. Sharing WHEN DATING HURTS Audiobook Chapters - Pt 2 of 2 Pts](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/320-sharing-when-dating-hurts-audiobook-chapters-pt-2-of-2-pts) — 2026-03-24T09:05:00+00:00
- [319. Sharing WHEN DATING HURTS Audiobook Chapters - Pt 1 of 2 Pts](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/319-sharing-when-dating-hurts-audiobook-chapters-pt-1-of-2-pts) — 2026-03-24T09:00:00+00:00
- [315. DV Survivors Stories Shared on WHEN DATING HURTS](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/315-dv-survivors-stories-shared-on-when-dating-hurts) — 2026-03-17T09:00:00+00:00
- [318. Ruth - Pt 3 of 3 Pts - A Harrowing True Story of Narcissistic Abuse & Domestic Violence](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/318-ruth-pt-3-of-3-pts-a-harrowing-true-story-of-narcissistic-abuse-domestic-violence) — 2026-03-10T09:10:00+00:00
- [317. Ruth - Pt 2 of 3 Pts - A Harrowing True Story of Narcissistic Abuse & Domestic Violence](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/317-ruth-pt-2-of-3-pts-a-harrowing-true-story-of-narcissistic-abuse-domestic-violence) — 2026-03-10T09:05:00+00:00
- [316. Ruth - Pt 1 of 3 Pts - A Harrowing True Story of Narcissistic Abuse & Domestic Violence](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/316-ruth-pt-1-of-3-pts-a-harrowing-true-story-of-narcissistic-abuse-domestic-violence) — 2026-03-10T09:00:00+00:00
- [314. Meghan - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Why Didn’t She Just Leave? A Narcissistic Abuse & Attempted Murder Story](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/314-meghan-pt-2-of-2-pts-why-didn-t-she-just-leave-a-narcissistic-abuse-attempted-murder-story) — 2026-03-03T10:05:00+00:00
- [313. Meghan - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Why Didn’t She Just Leave? A Narcissistic Abuse & Attempted Murder Story](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/313-meghan-pt-1-of-2-pts-why-didn-t-she-just-leave-a-narcissistic-abuse-attempted-murder-story) — 2026-03-03T10:00:00+00:00
- [312. Abe - Growing Up Surrounded by Abuse, Violence & Attempted Murder](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/312-abe-growing-up-surrounded-by-abuse-violence-attempted-murder) — 2026-02-24T10:00:00+00:00
- [311. Heather - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Surviving Narcissistic Abuse, Violence & Attempted Murder](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/311-heather-pt-2-of-2-pts-surviving-narcissistic-abuse-violence-attempted-murder) — 2026-02-17T10:05:00+00:00
- [310. Heather - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Surviving Narcissistic Abuse, Violence & Attempted Murder](https://stenobird.com/podcast/when-dating-hurts-2250848/310-heather-pt-1-of-2-pts-surviving-narcissistic-abuse-violence-attempted-murder) — 2026-02-17T10:00:00+00:00

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