# HOW TO FIND YOURSELF Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-we-said-587044/how-to-find-yourself Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-we-said-587044/how-to-find-yourself.md Podcast: [What We Said](https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-we-said-587044) Published: 2026-05-12T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/arttrk.com/p/DM22A/pdst.fm/e/mgln.ai/e/369/mgln.ai/e/p35039/rss.art19.com/episodes/fea06210-6135-4405-9585-2a07acf5260a.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Audio file: https://claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/arttrk.com/p/DM22A/pdst.fm/e/mgln.ai/e/369/mgln.ai/e/p35039/rss.art19.com/episodes/fea06210-6135-4405-9585-2a07acf5260a.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/what-we-said-587044/episodes/how-to-find-yourself Duration seconds: 3854 ## Resource Yes, another guest episode so soon — and this one is a good one. Jaci and Chelsey are joined by Payton Sartain Ross, lifestyle and fashion creator, host of the Note to Self podcast, and curator behind Chez Ross. Fresh off getting married to MLB player Joe Ross, Payton opens up about life as a WAG (and what that even means), navigating the uncertainty that comes with career slumps in professional sports, and adjusting to an entirely new season of life. She also shares thoughts on a possible career pivot of her own, including going back to school, why influencing appealed to her in the first place, and why she’s considering walking away from it altogether. Oh, and that’s What We Said!! (fin) // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast   SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said   !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID , @JACIMARIESMITH , @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS , @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID , CHELSEY JADE , JACI MARIE // SPONSORS // Salt & Stone: Try Salt and Stone’s discovery set to find your signature scent — Go to saltandstone.com/WHATWESAID and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for 15% off your first order. IQBAR: Text WWS to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply.  Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/WHATWESAID .  Rhoback: Use code “WHATWESAID” on Rhoback.com for a generous 20% off your first order through the end of this week!  NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID .  Please note that this episode may contain paid en… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/what-we-said-587044/episodes/how-to-find-yourself/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-we-said-587044/how-to-find-yourself.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.