# 257: Mae's ex-husband went to prison Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-was-that-like-true-stories-real-people-841594/257-mae-s-ex-husband-went-to-prison Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-was-that-like-true-stories-real-people-841594/257-mae-s-ex-husband-went-to-prison.md Podcast: [What Was That Like - True Stories. Real People.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-was-that-like-true-stories-real-people-841594) Published: 2026-05-29T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://WhatWasThatLike.com/257 Audio file: https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/tracking.swap.fm/track/6bpBPtHL977KJxLX2zPs/traffic.megaphone.fm/GLSS6116975413.mp3?updated=1778521926 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/what-was-that-like-true-stories-real-people-841594/episodes/257-mae-s-ex-husband-went-to-prison Duration seconds: 4495 ## Resource Have you ever had a really big vision of doing something, and then the way it turned out was actually very different from what you had planned? I think this is almost universal for us as humans. Think back to when you were a teenager. You probably had some ideas about becoming an adult and what that would look like. What kind of career you might have, or not. Finding a partner if you wanted one. Thinking about being a parent, or not having kids at all. A lot of young people have this vision of how they think their life is going to play out. And at that age, we don’t really have enough experience to know that those things almost never actually play out exactly as you expect them to. I mean, just by listening to the guests that I talk to here on the podcast, we know that things happen that we never would have imagined – and life can take a completely different path. My guest today is Mae. In high school, she had her life planned out. She had already met and was in love with her life partner, and they were going to get married as soon as they could, and they were going to have children, and live happily ever after. That’s not what happened. This episode has a content warning for domestic abuse and graphic sexual violence, because the fairy tale life Mae had planned gradually turned into a nightmare. Until she finally decided that she’d had enough. Resources: Crisis Center brochure (Castle Rock, CO):https://whatwasthatlike.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Crisis-Center-Brochure.pdf Domestic violence safety planning:https://whatwasthatlike.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Domestic-Violence-Safety-Planning.pdf How does domestic violence affect kids?https://whatwasthatlike.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/How-Does-Domestic-Violence-Affect-Kids.pdf Keeping your children safe:https:/… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/what-was-that-like-true-stories-real-people-841594/episodes/257-mae-s-ex-husband-went-to-prison/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-was-that-like-true-stories-real-people-841594/257-mae-s-ex-husband-went-to-prison.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.