# The balancing Act: Nanny, Child and Parents Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-the-nanny-heard-7050295/the-balancing-act-nanny-child-and-parents Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-the-nanny-heard-7050295/the-balancing-act-nanny-child-and-parents.md Podcast: [What The Nanny Heard](https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-the-nanny-heard-7050295) Published: 2026-01-20T02:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://shows.acast.com/what-the-nanny-heard/episodes/695fb9d068202f9deceda9b7 Audio file: https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/670126610aa98133a31dd89f/e/695fb9d068202f9deceda9b7/media.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/what-the-nanny-heard-7050295/episodes/the-balancing-act-nanny-child-and-parents Duration seconds: 2557 ## Resource Charlotte, Charlie, and Millie discuss the age-old question: who are Nannies really training — the children or the parents? They explore the delicate balance of managing expectations, routines, and boundaries in a role that often extends far beyond childcare. The ladies discuss the familiar Monday struggle: returning to work after weekend routines have been completely undone. Is it back to square one every time? Do Nannies have the right to complain, or is professionalism about accepting that parents will do as they please during the Nanny’s time off?  Also up for discussion is whether perspective and emotional resilience develop with experience, and if time in the job helps Nannies manage the mental load more effectively. Charlotte and Millie then share their own distressing stories of being fibbed to by their parents! Reflecting on how those moments linger long after they happen — and why trust is such a crucial, and fragile, part of the Nanny–child relationship. Charlotte’s DMs I am in a bit of a tricky situation, please may you help me? My employers are always blaming me  for things that aren’t my fault. When things go missing I am accused or at least I am asked with many, many questions and if anything happens to the house or gets broken they always give me an accusing look. Get in touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your_nanny_network/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/145513705160641 Email: yournannynetwork@gmail.com Website: https://www.yournannynetwork.co.uk/ YNN Disclaimer:The content on our site is provided for information only. Whilst we ensure that it is, as far as possible, correct, it is not intended to amount to legal or other advice on which you should rely.  Although we make reasonable efforts to ensure that all advice a… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/what-the-nanny-heard-7050295/episodes/the-balancing-act-nanny-child-and-parents/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/what-the-nanny-heard-7050295/the-balancing-act-nanny-child-and-parents.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.