# 39. Boundaries vs. Control: Are You Crossing the Line?

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Podcast: [Wet Dreamz](https://stenobird.com/podcast/wet-dreamz-6570437)
Published: 2026-05-29T14:35:38+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jose-gonzalez775/episodes/39--Boundaries-vs--Control-Are-You-Crossing-the-Line-e3k2kev
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ABOUT THE HOSTS: Brad Hinman is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist with significant expertise in sex therapy. Passionate about fostering healthy relationships and effective communication, Dr. Hinman brings a rich background in mental health counseling to the show, offering insights into relationship dynamics, boundaries, and control. Jose Gonzalez is an experienced mental health counselor and sex therapist. As the host of the Wet Dreams podcast, Gonzalez delves into issues surrounding mental health, sexual wellbeing, and relationship strategies, utilizing his background to provide thoughtful perspectives and relatable examples. SUMMARY: In this engaging episode of the Wet Dreams Podcast, hosts Dr. Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez delve into the nuanced topic of boundaries versus control within relationships. They explore how these terms are often misused and misunderstood, encouraging listeners to differentiate between personal boundaries and attempts to control others. Through a lively discussion, they emphasize the importance of introspection and communication in relationship dynamics. The conversation reveals the complexities surrounding the concepts of boundaries and control, highlighting how they can both positively and negatively impact relationships. Hinman and Gonzalez stress the importance of clear communication in establishing and respecting boundaries, and how misunderstandings can lead to control issues. By exploring real-world examples and scenarios, they provide listeners with practical advice on negotiating shared values and standards with partners. This episode is an insightful resource for anyone looking to enhance their relational understanding and develop healthier interactions. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Understanding Bo…

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