# 170: Meetings Don’t Have to Suck Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/unstuck-with-jay-abbasi-7051050/170-meetings-don-t-have-to-suck Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/unstuck-with-jay-abbasi-7051050/170-meetings-don-t-have-to-suck.md Podcast: [Unstuck with Jay Abbasi](https://stenobird.com/podcast/unstuck-with-jay-abbasi-7051050) Published: 2026-05-18T08:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/170-meetings-don-t-have-to-suck--72052612 Audio file: https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72052612/pdy2915220638.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unstuck-with-jay-abbasi-7051050/episodes/170-meetings-don-t-have-to-suck Duration seconds: 3372 ## Resource Why do so many meetings leave people feeling drained instead of productive? Meet Heather. It’s 8 p.m. and she’s still staring at her laptop. Her days are packed with back-to-back meetings, leaving no time to think, plan, or actually do the work. By the end of the day, she feels exhausted, behind, and disconnected from the life waiting for her outside the screen. In this episode, Jay sits down with Mamie Kanfer Stewart, founder of Modern Manager and author of Momentum. Together, they unpack why most meetings fail, how poor meeting culture quietly drains energy and productivity, and what leaders can do to reclaim time, attention, and focus. Notable Quotes “A conversation can grow to the size of its fishbowl.” — Mamie Kanfer Stewart “Running meetings is a skill.” — Mamie Kanfer Stewart “There’s almost always someone in the meeting wondering why they’re there.” — Mamie Kanfer Stewart “Meetings don’t have to be the bane of existence at work.” — Mamie Kanfer Stewart About Our Guest Mamie Kanfer Stewart is the founder of Modern Manager, host of The Modern Manager Podcast, and author of Momentum. She works with leaders and organizations to improve communication, collaboration, and meeting culture through practical systems that help teams work more effectively and intentionally. Resources & Links Mamie Kanfer Stewart Website – https://www.mamieks.com/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamiekanferstewart/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/leadershipwithmamie/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/mamie.kanfer.stewart/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@themodernmanager Pinterest – https://www.pinterest.com/mamiekstewart/ X – https://x.com/mamieks Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instag… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unstuck-with-jay-abbasi-7051050/episodes/170-meetings-don-t-have-to-suck/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/unstuck-with-jay-abbasi-7051050/170-meetings-don-t-have-to-suck.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.