# 511. Coaching Hotline: When DEI Feels Like a Threat Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone-223312/511-coaching-hotline-when-dei-feels-like-a-threat Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone-223312/511-coaching-hotline-when-dei-feels-like-a-threat.md Podcast: [UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone](https://stenobird.com/podcast/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone-223312) Published: 2026-07-21T05:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/dei-feels-like-threat/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/19f8f907-9d2c-4c43-b969-4141a38cce04.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone-223312/episodes/511-coaching-hotline-when-dei-feels-like-a-threat Duration seconds: 241 ## Resource Do you catch yourself resenting opportunities others get, even when they’re designed to increase fairness or diversity? In this episode, I answer a listener struggling with scarcity thinking at work and explain why it’s the thought, not the circumstance, that creates anxiety and resentment. You'll hear how women are socialized to wait for rewards instead of creating them, and why taking responsibility for your own success lets you see opportunity and achievement as something you generate, not something handed out. Submit your own question here and it might get answered on a future episode: unfuckyourbrain.com/coachinghotline Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/511 Watch episodes over on YouTube: youtube.com/@karaloewentheilcoaching Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil/ ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone-223312/episodes/511-coaching-hotline-when-dei-feels-like-a-threat/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone-223312/511-coaching-hotline-when-dei-feels-like-a-threat.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.