# Can You Really Trust Again After Betrayal? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348/can-you-really-trust-again-after-betrayal Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348/can-you-really-trust-again-after-betrayal.md Podcast: [Unblock Your BS](https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348) Published: 2026-07-08T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://44c46f29-c836-4e72-8af1-72748ae1234e.libsyn.com/can-you-really-trust-again-after-betrayal Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/44c46f29-c836-4e72-8af1-72748ae1234e/Episode_78_Audio_Podcast.mp3?dest-id=4829170 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unblock-your-bs-7162348/episodes/can-you-really-trust-again-after-betrayal Duration seconds: 2365 ## Resource You almost lost the whole thing. And now, somehow, it's good again. Better than it's ever been, even. So why can't you actually enjoy it? Why does part of you keep waiting for the floor to drop out? In this week's coaching episode, "Steve" reached out to Tara while he was in the middle of filing for divorce after an affair. Months later, the divorce is off the table and he and his wife are more connected than they've ever been, but he doesn't quite trust it, and he came on to get coached through what real repair actually looks like. In this episode: Why the honeymoon phase after a near-breakup can be a band-aid, not proof you're healed The question that matters more than "can I trust her": can you trust yourself to show up regardless of how she shows up How to tell when a surface argument is really about a deeper need, and what to do instead of just reacting Why you set the terms for conflict before the fight, not in the middle of it Grieving the old relationship so you can build a new one instead of repeating the same cycle If you're trying to rebuild something after it nearly fell apart, this one's for you. JOIN MY FREE TRAINING HERE __________________________________________________________________________________ Interested in Nervous System Regulation tools? Join my healing community for breathwork + tools: unblockyourbs.com/saa Connect with Tara: Follow @unblockyourbs on Instagram @unblockyourbs on TikTok Watch the episodes on YouTube Book a 1:1 call with Tara Get the Nervous System Reset Toolkit Submit a question for an upcoming Podcast or LIVE __________________________________________________________________________________ Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professiona… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unblock-your-bs-7162348/episodes/can-you-really-trust-again-after-betrayal/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348/can-you-really-trust-again-after-betrayal.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.