# S9 E3 | Is Every Red Flag a Big Deal? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/therapy-and-theology-5630841/s9-e3-is-every-red-flag-a-big-deal Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/therapy-and-theology-5630841/s9-e3-is-every-red-flag-a-big-deal.md Podcast: [Therapy and Theology](https://stenobird.com/podcast/therapy-and-theology-5630841) Published: 2025-07-24T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://therapyandtheology.transistor.fm/episodes/s9-e3-is-every-red-flag-a-big-deal Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/051fd132/d5089482.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/therapy-and-theology-5630841/episodes/s9-e3-is-every-red-flag-a-big-deal Duration seconds: 1585 ## Resource It's one thing to recognize red flags in your relationships. It's another thing to know what to do after that. In this episode, you'll learn: Five spectrums to consider when determining how serious a red flag is. Guidelines for determining if a particular red flag is something that needs to be confronted or self-managed. How to grow in awareness of red flags without getting overwhelmed or scared to get close to others. Links we mentioned in this episode: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go deeper: Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships." Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress. Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships." ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/therapy-and-theology-5630841/episodes/s9-e3-is-every-red-flag-a-big-deal/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/therapy-and-theology-5630841/s9-e3-is-every-red-flag-a-big-deal.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.