# Positivity Isn’t Healing (It’s Avoidance) — How to Hear Your Own Voice Again Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-you-world-order-showcase-podcast-6275734/positivity-isn-t-healing-it-s-avoidance-how-to-hear-your-own-voice-again Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-you-world-order-showcase-podcast-6275734/positivity-isn-t-healing-it-s-avoidance-how-to-hear-your-own-voice-again.md Podcast: [The You World Order Showcase Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-you-world-order-showcase-podcast-6275734) Published: 2026-04-29T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://hartlifecoach.com/alli-gatlin Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/episodes.captivate.fm/episode/358c6212-f03d-44aa-919c-1a7c7d5c7eab.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-you-world-order-showcase-podcast-6275734/episodes/positivity-isn-t-healing-it-s-avoidance-how-to-hear-your-own-voice-again Duration seconds: 2693 ## Resource If “just think positive” actually worked… you wouldn’t be here. In this episode, I’m joined by writer & coach Alli Gatlin , and we talk about why positivity can keep you stuck, how people edit themselves into silence, and what changes when you stop outsourcing your inner voice. We go deep (and we laugh a lot) on: Radical curiosity : stop trying to feel something, start learning something Honesty : dropping the mask and telling the truth (to yourself first) Shame : why it keeps you looping—and how to drop it Boundaries : not rules for other people… authority inside you Identity + self-trust: rebuilding your voice in small, doable moments Connect with Alli: Skool: skool.com/identitywritten/about Substack: alligatlin.substack.com IG/Threads: @alliegatlin 👉 Like, subscribe, and tell me in the comments: What’s one place you’ve been editing yourself—and what would honesty sound like instead? Want premium clients from your content? Grab a free Client Acquisition Audit and I’ll show you exactly where your message, offer, and CTA are leaking conversions—and the 3 fixes to turn your podcast/Substack into a client pipeline. 👉 Book here: https://coachsalchemist.com This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-you-world-order-showcase-podcast-6275734/episodes/positivity-isn-t-healing-it-s-avoidance-how-to-hear-your-own-voice-again/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-you-world-order-showcase-podcast-6275734/positivity-isn-t-healing-it-s-avoidance-how-to-hear-your-own-voice-again.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.