# “In My Heart, We Were Divorced”: A Valentine’s Story of Real Love | The Unbound Podcast

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Podcast: [The Unbound Podcast with Dr. Tony Evans](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-unbound-podcast-with-dr-tony-evans-7667203)
Published: 2026-02-10T10:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

If your marriage looks fine on paper but feels disconnected in real life, this episode is for you. This conversation goes where most couples don’t. The quiet resentment. The emotional shutdown. The moment you realize you’re still married, but you’re no longer with each other. It talks about what happens when faith, responsibility, kids and calling slowly crowd out connection—and no one knows how to name it without blowing everything up. You’ll hear what it sounds like when someone finally says the thing they’ve been swallowing for years. When Scripture stops being inspirational and starts being disruptive. When love is no longer a concept but a mirror that exposes what’s actually missing. This isn’t marriage advice or a highlight reel. It’s about the long middle. The season where you’re exhausted, loyal, committed—and still lonely. It’s about learning how to fight for the relationship instead of fighting inside it. About rebuilding trust through curiosity instead of control. About choosing honesty when silence feels safer. If you’ve ever thought, “I love you, but I don’t feel close to you anymore,” this episode will hit home. And if you’ve wondered whether something that feels emotionally dead can actually come back to life, this conversation doesn’t hype the answer—it shows it. Follow Jake and Nicci on Instagram: https:// www.instagram.com/thejakehamilton https:// www.instagram.com/niccihamilton YouTube @TheJakeHamilton Listen to Jake's music on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2axIibWxJGHJ5gqRRRlMWn Read Jake's book "The Journey to Biblical Masculinity": https://a.co/d/03mYBIMp The Unbound Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Tony Evans about what it means to live free of what binds us, including fear, pressure, shame and the need to perform strength. Ne…

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