# My 5 Step Checklist to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: Don't Skip This One! Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-unapologetic-man-podcast-how-to-meet-attract-and-date-more-women-439113/my-5-step-checklist-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend-don-t-skip-this-one Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-unapologetic-man-podcast-how-to-meet-attract-and-date-more-women-439113/my-5-step-checklist-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend-don-t-skip-this-one.md Podcast: [The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-unapologetic-man-podcast-how-to-meet-attract-and-date-more-women-439113) Published: 2026-03-31T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://unapologeticmanpodcast.libsyn.com/my-5-step-checklist-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend-dont-skip-this-one Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/unapologeticmanpodcast/UMP_738_-_For_Libsyn.mp3?dest-id=766366 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-unapologetic-man-podcast-how-to-meet-attract-and-date-more-women-439113/episodes/my-5-step-checklist-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend-don-t-skip-this-one Duration seconds: 1442 ## Resource In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing walks you through the 5 steps every man must follow before asking a girl to be his girlfriend. If you've ever wanted to lock down a girl you really like but weren't sure how to do it without screwing it up, this episode is for you. Most guys blow it by showing too much interest, and try to force the relationship before it's ready. In this episode, Mark shows you exactly how to avoid that and handle it the right way so she's the one pushing for commitment. Key Takeaways: - Why you must see yourself as the prize before ever committing to a relationship. - The 80/100 rule and how it keeps you in the masculine role. - How to let her bring up commitment first (and why this is critical). - The "note technique" to ask her to be your girlfriend in a way that works. - Why you should never say "I love you" too early. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:39] – Aim high [00:01:25] – You are the prize [00:02:05] – The 80/100 rule explained [00:02:45] – Masculine vs feminine dynamics [00:04:10] – Calm down and stop rushing things [00:07:49] – Letting her bring up the relationship first [00:09:49] – What to say when she asks "what are we?" [00:13:29] – Client testimonials [00:16:00] – How long to wait before you ask her to be your girlfriend [00:17:17] – The "note technique" for asking her to be your girlfriend [00:19:30] – She is not special, bro, don't forget it! [00:21:00] – Bonus rule [00:23:32] – Final thoughts Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The App… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-unapologetic-man-podcast-how-to-meet-attract-and-date-more-women-439113/episodes/my-5-step-checklist-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend-don-t-skip-this-one/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-unapologetic-man-podcast-how-to-meet-attract-and-date-more-women-439113/my-5-step-checklist-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend-don-t-skip-this-one.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.