# Is This Cheating? Liking Bikini Pics, Group Chat ‘Banter’ & Phone Snooping Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-therapy-crouch-5970769/is-this-cheating-liking-bikini-pics-group-chat-banter-phone-snooping Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-therapy-crouch-5970769/is-this-cheating-liking-bikini-pics-group-chat-banter-phone-snooping.md Podcast: [The Therapy Crouch](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-therapy-crouch-5970769) Published: 2026-02-25T06:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://shows.acast.com/the-therapy-crouch/episodes/699f8436fa55957722648e1a Audio file: https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/638df388c48dee001175aef4/e/699f8436fa55957722648e1a/media.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-therapy-crouch-5970769/episodes/is-this-cheating-liking-bikini-pics-group-chat-banter-phone-snooping Duration seconds: 1096 ## Resource On today’s Ask Us Anything episode of The Therapy Crouch , Abbey, Peter and Ross dive head-first into your juiciest dilemmas – and this one gets heated. We hear from a newlywed struggling with intimacy after anxiety medication kills his wife’s sex drive, sparking an honest conversation about desire, frustration and when it’s time to get professional help. Then things really kick off as Abbey reacts to a listener who went through her partner’s phone and found bikini pics, pub messages and lads’ group chat behaviour that crosses the line. Is it just “boys’ banter”… or is it borderline cheating? From trust, boundaries and when sorry just isn’t enough, to iconic football songs and questionable swimming chat, this episode has everything. If you want to submit an Agony Ab to the podcast – hit the link below. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1rAKDST4HU_8al_aWpOlys3TRJrWvDV-84piVdlOOjU4/edit 00:00 – Intro, ropey voices & “bleed Therapy Crouch” 01:20 – Cameras down throats & medical horror stories 02:00 – Nicknames chat begins (Matalan, Motion Sensor Light, Curly Whirly) 04:16 – Agony Ab 1: Newlyweds, anxiety meds & no sex 06:20 – “Turbo vs handbrake” & fantasy conversation gets awkward 07:40 – Why fantasising about people you know is dangerous 09:12 – GP advice & “above our pay grade” moment 10:14 – YNWA vs Delilah – which song hits harder? 12:05 – Agony Ab 2: Went through his phone… found bikini pics 13:25 – Pub messages, group chats & “men need to grow up” 14:19 – “That’s borderline cheating” & breaking trust 15:49 – When sorry isn’t enough & healing takes time 16:42 – Final verdict: dump him or set hard boundaries 17:00 – Hot toddy, swimming & gun show jokes 18:12 – Outro To contact us: Email: thetherapycrouch@gmail.com Instagram: https://… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-therapy-crouch-5970769/episodes/is-this-cheating-liking-bikini-pics-group-chat-banter-phone-snooping/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-therapy-crouch-5970769/is-this-cheating-liking-bikini-pics-group-chat-banter-phone-snooping.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.