# My Story: Trauma Bonds, Breakups & Patterns Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-southern-tea-3899879/my-story-trauma-bonds-breakups-patterns Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-southern-tea-3899879/my-story-trauma-bonds-breakups-patterns.md Podcast: [The Southern Tea](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-southern-tea-3899879) Published: 2026-07-22T13:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/prfx.byspotify.com/e/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/PDPN1/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/605a5bae-a593-4e80-9aa2-1335ac50610c.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/prfx.byspotify.com/e/claritaspod.com/measure/arttrk.com/p/PDPN1/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/605a5bae-a593-4e80-9aa2-1335ac50610c.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-southern-tea-3899879/episodes/my-story-trauma-bonds-breakups-patterns Duration seconds: 4689 ## Resource Disclaimer: This is a personal account based on my own experiences, memories, perceptions, and opinions. It reflects my perspective and is not intended as an objective account of events. Others may have different recollections or interpretations. It is shared for personal expression and discussion only. It all started with an unexpected boat trip over Labor Day weekend. But what happens when the initial magic gets tangled in the messy, legalistic realities of life after divorce? In part one of this crossover episode, Lindsie peels back the layers on her relationship with David that swept her up fast . From a heartwarming beginning where he took care of her during a severe bout of the flu, to the cycle of fake breakups used as defense mechanisms, Lindsie spills it all. It's a story of two very different people living their post-divorce worlds. One enjoys a seamless, highly flexible co-parenting dynamic built on communication; the other is locked in a rigid, high-conflict parenting plan. Ultimately, Lindsie realizes that sometimes you have to love someone away from you to safeguard your personal peace. Want to watch The Southern Tea ? Full video episodes are now available at patreon.com/cw/LindsieChrisley . Use code WelcomeYall for 30% off your first month for a limited time only. Thank you to our sponsors! Hers : Visit forhers.com/ southerntea to get personalized, affordable care that gets you HomeServe: Go to HomeServe.com to find the plan that’s right for you Jack Archer: Go to JackArcher.com and use promo code GETJACK for 15% off your first order Our Place: Visit fromourplace.com/TEA and use code TEA for 10% off sitewide.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info . ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-southern-tea-3899879/episodes/my-story-trauma-bonds-breakups-patterns/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-southern-tea-3899879/my-story-trauma-bonds-breakups-patterns.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.