# Ep. 81: Periods Aren’t Meant to Bloody Hurt: Reclaiming Menstrual Health with Gemma Barry

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Podcast: [The Soft Rebellion Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-soft-rebellion-podcast-6610298)
Published: 2026-02-25T12:24:12+00:00
Episode link: https://flurinathali.substack.com/p/ep-81-periods-arent-meant-to-bloody
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## Resource

Painful, heavy, chaotic periods have become so normalised that many women are told to simply “get on with it.” But what if that narrative is wrong? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Gemma — former NHS nurse, herbalist and founder of The Well Woman Project — to challenge the deeply rooted cultural and medical narratives around menstrual pain. We explore why period pain has been normalised, how shame and silence have shaped menstrual health care, and what it really means to reclaim agency over your body. If you’ve ever been told your symptoms are “just part of being a woman,” this episode is for you. In this conversation … 💫 We name the historical — and present — menstrual landscape shaped by shame, silence and an illness-based narrative. We unpack how this narrative formed and why it needs dismantling. 💫 Gemma shares her own menstrual journey — how her experience of “chaotic cycles” and various diagnoses sparked a deep question: How can I support myself beyond the conventional allopathic route? That quest ultimately led her to specialise in menstrual health and write her book. 💫 We redefine menstrual health and examine why painful periods are not “normal.” Pain is a communication tool. When we understand the physiology behind it — particularly the role of inflammation — we begin to see what may worsen symptoms and what can genuinely help ease them. 💫 We discuss why and how menstrual health matters for vaginal health and overall mental wellbeing! 💫 Tracking your cycle isn’t just about fertility — it’s about gathering meaningful data. Gemma shares how women and menstruators can resist medical gaslighting, advocate for themselves and feel more confident in conversations with healthcare professionals. More about Gemma: Gemma is a former NHS nurse, herbalist and…

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