# Episode 10 - The Emotional Cost of Being Nice Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-skills-squad-podcast-6862993/episode-10-the-emotional-cost-of-being-nice Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-skills-squad-podcast-6862993/episode-10-the-emotional-cost-of-being-nice.md Podcast: [The Skills Squad Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-skills-squad-podcast-6862993) Published: 2026-01-04T23:42:16+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-10-the-emotional-cost-of-being-nice--69301322 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69301322/draft_1767569350877210_audio.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-skills-squad-podcast-6862993/episodes/episode-10-the-emotional-cost-of-being-nice Duration seconds: 406 ## Resource Being “nice” often looks harmless, but it slowly erodes self-respect, attracts resentment, and kills intimacy. This episode breaks down how people-pleasing disconnects you from your truth, why boundaries trigger guilt, and how honesty is essential for real connection. A reflective guide for choosing clarity over approval. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-skills-squad-podcast--6097332/support . ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-skills-squad-podcast-6862993/episodes/episode-10-the-emotional-cost-of-being-nice/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-skills-squad-podcast-6862993/episode-10-the-emotional-cost-of-being-nice.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.