# She's Still Sexual...Just Not With Me. (Sex and the Dismissive Wife Podcast Series)

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Podcast: [The Secure Husband](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341)
Published: 2026-07-25T05:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/459df9fc
Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/459df9fc/b11dd758.mp3
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Duration seconds: 1020

## Resource

Does your wife seem playful, warm, or even sexual with other people, but distant with you? Many husbands in a sexless marriage start to believe one painful story: “She still has a sex drive. She just does not want me.” In this episode, Bruce Abbott explains the difference between observation and interpretation. Your wife may laugh at a sexual joke, comment on an attractive actor, dance in the kitchen, or act playful with friends. Those actions may be real, but they do not automatically prove that she has strong sexual desire for everyone except you. This episode looks at how anxious attachment can turn painful moments into firm conclusions. It also explains why playfulness does not always equal sexual desire, why low-pressure settings can feel easier than marriage, and how years of hurt, rejection, pressure, and resentment can affect intimacy. You will also learn how the Secure Husband Process can help you question painful stories, separate facts from assumptions, and study real patterns over time. The goal is not to deny a hard truth. The goal is to stop treating an unproven fear as a fact. If you would like help applying these ideas to your own marriage, schedule a free 30-minute consultation at SecureHusband.com. It is simply a conversation about what is happening in your marriage and how coaching might work for you. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just a chance to see if it is a good fit and how I can help. If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com. #SexlessMarriage #DeadBedroom #AttachmentStyles #MarriageAdvice #DismissiveAvoidant All content is for informational purposes only and does not provide medical or psychological diagnosis o…

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