# The Secure Husband Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341.md RSS feed: https://feeds.transistor.fm/the-secure-husband Official site: https://securehusband.com Author: M. Bruce Abbott Episodes: 180 ## Resource A Secure Husband no longer seeks validation from his wife; he stands strong in self-worth, meets his own emotional needs, and leads with confidence and clarity. I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help you break free from old patterns, reclaim your strength, and transform your marriage from the inside out. ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-secure-husband-7258341 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341.md ## Episodes - [She's Still Sexual...Just Not With Me. (Sex and the Dismissive Wife Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/she-s-still-sexual-just-not-with-me-sex-and-the-dismissive-wife-podcast-series) — 2026-07-25T05:00:00+00:00 - [Low Libido or Dismissive Avoidant Attachment? (Sex and the Dismissive Wife Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/low-libido-or-dismissive-avoidant-attachment-sex-and-the-dismissive-wife-podcast-series) — 2026-07-21T05:00:00+00:00 - ["All You Think About Is Sex" (Sex and The Dismissive Avoidant Wife Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/all-you-think-about-is-sex-sex-and-the-dismissive-avoidant-wife-podcast-series) — 2026-07-14T05:00:00+00:00 - [Healthy Initiation vs. Hidden Games (Sex and the Dismissive Wife Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/healthy-initiation-vs-hidden-games-sex-and-the-dismissive-wife-podcast-series) — 2026-07-09T05:00:00+00:00 - [Why She Can Love You and Still Rarely Initiate Sex (Sex and the Dismissive Avoidant Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-she-can-love-you-and-still-rarely-initiate-sex-sex-and-the-dismissive-avoidant-podcast-series) — 2026-07-03T05:00:00+00:00 - [Why Sex Feels Different to the Dismissive Avoidant Wife (Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-sex-feels-different-to-the-dismissive-avoidant-wife-podcast-series) — 2026-06-30T05:00:00+00:00 - [Codependency and Boundaries: Why Boundaries Feel So Wrong (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/codependency-and-boundaries-why-boundaries-feel-so-wrong-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-26T05:00:00+00:00 - [The Hidden Resentment of Codependency (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/the-hidden-resentment-of-codependency-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-21T05:00:00+00:00 - [Why Dismissive-Avoidants Get So Triggered by Codependent Behavior (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-dismissive-avoidants-get-so-triggered-by-codependent-behavior-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-17T05:00:00+00:00 - [The Two-Headed Monster: Anxiety and Codependency in Marriage (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/the-two-headed-monster-anxiety-and-codependency-in-marriage-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-13T05:00:00+00:00 - [Codependency and the Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/codependency-and-the-sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-09T05:00:00+00:00 - [Why Codependency Hurts So Much (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-codependency-hurts-so-much-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-05T05:00:00+00:00 - [I’m Only Okay If You’re Okay (Codependency Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/i-m-only-okay-if-you-re-okay-codependency-podcast-series) — 2026-06-01T05:00:00+00:00 - [Stop Going to Dead Bedroom Forums — They Are Keeping You Stuck (Perception of Powerlessness Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/stop-going-to-dead-bedroom-forums-they-are-keeping-you-stuck-perception-of-powerlessness-series) — 2026-05-28T05:00:00+00:00 - [You WERE Powerless Once — Why It Got Stuck in Your Body (Perception of Powerlessness Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/you-were-powerless-once-why-it-got-stuck-in-your-body-perception-of-powerlessness-series) — 2026-05-23T05:00:00+00:00 - [Why We Stay In Toxic Relationship (Perception of Powerlessness Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-we-stay-in-toxic-relationship-perception-of-powerlessness-series) — 2026-05-18T13:13:23+00:00 - [You CAN Change Your Marriage By Changing Yourself (Perception of Powerlessness Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/you-can-change-your-marriage-by-changing-yourself-perception-of-powerlessness-series) — 2026-05-13T05:00:00+00:00 - [“I Have to Stay for the Kids” (Perception of Powerlessness Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/i-have-to-stay-for-the-kids-perception-of-powerlessness-series) — 2026-05-09T05:00:00+00:00 - [It Feels Like She Has All the Power (The Perception of Powerlessness)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/it-feels-like-she-has-all-the-power-the-perception-of-powerlessness) — 2026-05-05T13:14:23+00:00 - [P*rn, Masturbation, and the Dead Bedroom / Sexless Marriage — The Hidden Cycle That Keeps You Stuck](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/p-rn-masturbation-and-the-dead-bedroom-sexless-marriage-the-hidden-cycle-that-keeps-you-stuck) — 2026-04-30T05:00:00+00:00 - [The Bold Move In My Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/the-bold-move-in-my-sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom) — 2026-04-27T05:00:00+00:00 - [How Becoming Secure Transforms a Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/how-becoming-secure-transforms-a-sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom) — 2026-04-23T05:00:00+00:00 - [“I Just Gave Up”… Why Accepting a Sexless Marriage (When You Don’t Truly Want It) Isn’t the Answer](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/i-just-gave-up-why-accepting-a-sexless-marriage-when-you-don-t-truly-want-it-isn-t-the-answer) — 2026-04-19T05:00:00+00:00 - [Duty Sex / Pity Sex : Self Abandonment in a Dead Bedroom / Sexless Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/duty-sex-pity-sex-self-abandonment-in-a-dead-bedroom-sexless-marriage) — 2026-04-15T13:10:53+00:00 - [“Fine, I’ll Get It Somewhere Else” - In A Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/fine-i-ll-get-it-somewhere-else-in-a-sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom) — 2026-04-11T05:00:00+00:00 - [You’re Not Powerless in a Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/you-re-not-powerless-in-a-sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom) — 2026-04-07T18:57:48+00:00 - [Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom: The Stories You Tell Yourself](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom-the-stories-you-tell-yourself) — 2026-04-03T05:00:00+00:00 - [Boundaries Around Your Self-Worth](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/boundaries-around-your-self-worth) — 2026-03-31T05:00:00+00:00 - [When You Feel Taken for Granted — Boundaries That Restore Value in Your Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/when-you-feel-taken-for-granted-boundaries-that-restore-value-in-your-marriage) — 2026-03-27T05:00:00+00:00 - [Boundaries Around Emotional Withdrawal](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/boundaries-around-emotional-withdrawal) — 2026-03-23T05:00:00+00:00 - [When the Lines Get Crossed — Boundaries Around Sexual Integrity in Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/when-the-lines-get-crossed-boundaries-around-sexual-integrity-in-marriage) — 2026-03-19T05:00:00+00:00 - [Respect Is Not Optional — Boundaries That Protect Dignity in Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/respect-is-not-optional-boundaries-that-protect-dignity-in-marriage) — 2026-03-15T05:00:00+00:00 - [Holding Boundaries Around Criticism](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/holding-boundaries-around-criticism) — 2026-03-11T05:00:00+00:00 - [Sexless Marriage / Dead Bedroom? Boundaries Are the Missing Piece](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/sexless-marriage-dead-bedroom-boundaries-are-the-missing-piece) — 2026-03-07T06:00:00+00:00 - [Why Boundaries Are Non-Negotiable (Podcast Series)](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-boundaries-are-non-negotiable-podcast-series) — 2026-03-03T06:00:00+00:00 - [Rewire Your Nervous System: Passing It Through](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/rewire-your-nervous-system-passing-it-through) — 2026-02-28T06:00:00+00:00 - [Awareness Isn’t Enough: Why Insight Alone Won’t Change Your Nervous System](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/awareness-isn-t-enough-why-insight-alone-won-t-change-your-nervous-system) — 2026-02-26T06:00:00+00:00 - [Boundaries Collapsing Under Pressure: Your Nervous System](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/boundaries-collapsing-under-pressure-your-nervous-system) — 2026-02-23T06:00:00+00:00 - [When Despair Takes Over: The Nervous System, Hopelessness, and Giving Up](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/when-despair-takes-over-the-nervous-system-hopelessness-and-giving-up) — 2026-02-20T06:00:00+00:00 - [Your Nervous System Reacts to Moments — Not Patterns](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/your-nervous-system-reacts-to-moments-not-patterns) — 2026-02-17T06:00:00+00:00 - [Why Your Nervous System Stops You From Communicating Your Needs](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/why-your-nervous-system-stops-you-from-communicating-your-needs) — 2026-02-13T06:00:00+00:00 - [How Your Nervous System Leads To Self-Abandonment](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secure-husband-7258341/how-your-nervous-system-leads-to-self-abandonment) — 2026-02-09T06:00:00+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. 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