# They Won't Recognize the New You (And That's the Point) | S2S 544 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secret-to-success-with-cj-karl-jemal-eric-thomas-436527/they-won-t-recognize-the-new-you-and-that-s-the-point-s2s-544 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secret-to-success-with-cj-karl-jemal-eric-thomas-436527/they-won-t-recognize-the-new-you-and-that-s-the-point-s2s-544.md Podcast: [The Secret To Success with CJ, Karl, Jemal & Eric Thomas](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secret-to-success-with-cj-karl-jemal-eric-thomas-436527) Published: 2026-06-04T22:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://episode.flightcast.com/01KSZEDSWZHSSSNM0V14X0GKH0.mp3 Audio file: https://episode.flightcast.com/01KSZEDSWZHSSSNM0V14X0GKH0.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-secret-to-success-with-cj-karl-jemal-eric-thomas-436527/episodes/they-won-t-recognize-the-new-you-and-that-s-the-point-s2s-544 Duration seconds: 2919 ## Resource You're changing. You're growing. You're stepping into who you were always meant to be. And the people closest to you don't recognize you anymore. They look at you funny. They treat you different. They make you feel like you're doing something wrong. But here's the truth: if they don't recognize the new you, you're doing it right. In Episode 544, the crew dives into one of the most uncomfortable truths about transformation. The people who knew you before your change are often the ones who resist it the most. Not because they don't love you. But because your growth exposes where they're still stuck. And instead of celebrating your elevation, they start acting awkward, distant, or downright hostile. ET breaks down the Harriet Tubman principle: she didn't carry a gun for her enemies. She carried it for the people she was trying to free. Because the ones closest to you are the ones most likely to snitch, sabotage, or talk you out of your destiny. Jemal opens up about how people who saw him build from the ground up didn't treat him differently until the world validated what he was doing. CJ shares how his wife is now experiencing what it's like to step into the light and have people who were once close suddenly act funny. Karl brings the perspective on why you can't stay around people who aren't building. And ET delivers the hard truth: you are supposed to change. People are not supposed to recognize you. That's not the problem. That's the proof. This episode will challenge everything you think about loyalty, relationships, and what it really means to transform. Because the higher you go, the more you expose where others are stuck. And if you're waiting for the people from your past to celebrate the person you're becoming, you'll be waiting forever. Stop dimming your light t… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-secret-to-success-with-cj-karl-jemal-eric-thomas-436527/episodes/they-won-t-recognize-the-new-you-and-that-s-the-point-s2s-544/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-secret-to-success-with-cj-karl-jemal-eric-thomas-436527/they-won-t-recognize-the-new-you-and-that-s-the-point-s2s-544.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.