# Why Our Partners Drive Us Insane Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-school-of-life-7778042/why-our-partners-drive-us-insane Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-school-of-life-7778042/why-our-partners-drive-us-insane.md Podcast: [The School of Life](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-school-of-life-7778042) Published: 2026-06-21T21:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/VG9144896369.mp3?updated=1778676746 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/VG9144896369.mp3?updated=1778676746 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-school-of-life-7778042/episodes/why-our-partners-drive-us-insane Duration seconds: 511 ## Resource We don’t end up with maddening partners by mistake. We’re driven towards them by quirks of our psychology we should learn to understand better. Enjoying our Youtube videos? Get full access to all our audio content, videos, and thousands of thought-provoking articles, conversation cards and more with The School of Life Subscription: https://t.ly/0T4oY Be more mindful, present and inspired. Get the best of The School of Life delivered straight to your inbox: https://t.ly/rwfgp FURTHER READING “We should feel sympathy for ourselves. The challenges of how we might find love are highly complex, seldom systematically explored and – relatively – brand new. We’ve been looking for love the way we do now for, at best, only 260 years. We’re still at the dawn of determining how to get into good relationships. Signs of our missteps are all around us…” You can read more on this and other topics here: https://goo.gl/lySpkh MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/ X: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Kathrin Steinbacher http://www.kathrinsteinbacher.com #TheSchoolOfLife ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-school-of-life-7778042/episodes/why-our-partners-drive-us-insane/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-school-of-life-7778042/why-our-partners-drive-us-insane.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.