# 213: Swinging, Connection & Consent (with “George & Mildred” + Guest Host Kira)

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Podcast: [The Penis Project Podcast: Breaking Taboos in Men’s Sexual Health](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-penis-project-podcast-breaking-taboos-in-men-s-sexual-health-3323686)
Published: 2026-01-27T22:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://thepenisproject.podbean.com/e/213-swinging-connection-consent-with-george-mildred-guest-host-kira/
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Duration seconds: 3636

## Resource

In this candid and surprising episode, Melissa is joined by guest host Kira and anonymous guests “George and Mildred” for a deep dive into their relationship story, how menopause and erectile dysfunction impacted their marriage, and how a journey into the swinging lifestyle ultimately strengthened communication, intimacy, and connection. This conversation explores the real relationship work behind non-monogamy, including boundaries, ground rules, consent culture at clubs, the importance of emotional safety, and how past breaches of consent can shape future intimacy. What You’ll Hear in This Episode How they met (army posting, friendship-first, and a hilariously blunt pickup line) Menopause, libido changes, and the ripple effects inside a long-term relationship What ED did to confidence, connection, and communication — and why many men withdraw silently Their first visit to Restorative Health Clinic, and the moment treatment helped restore intimacy The relationship rupture: online searching for connection, betrayal, and rebuilding trust The turning point: honest conversations that revealed the issue wasn’t “just sex” — it was the relationship How and why, they entered swinging (slowly), why it wasn’t instant confidence, and what helped Attraction, compatibility, and why “the whole package” matters more than perfection Sexual identity and exploration (bisexuality, comfort, and removing shame) The “unicorn” dynamic: what it means, how it works, and why friendship matters as much as sex Clubs explained for beginners: what swinging clubs are like what “play areas” are how different venues have different vibes (more social vs more kink-friendly) The Dom/Sub dynamic: how it developed, how they practised safely, and why education matters Consent and confidentiality: what “yes”…

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