# Why Your Child’s Fierce Autonomy is Good & How to Get Husbands/Siblings To Understand #12

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Podcast: [THE PDA PARENT PODCAST](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-pda-parent-podcast-7702648)
Published: 2026-04-21T09:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 1350

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