# # 221 Designing the Life I Actually Want at 36 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-paul-dermody-podcast-1118028/221-designing-the-life-i-actually-want-at-36 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-paul-dermody-podcast-1118028/221-designing-the-life-i-actually-want-at-36.md Podcast: [The Paul Dermody Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-paul-dermody-podcast-1118028) Published: 2026-03-02T16:40:00+00:00 Episode link: https://mindfullyfitintelligentlyactive.libsyn.com/-221-designing-the-life-i-actually-want-at-36 Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/mindfullyfitintelligentlyactive/4_WORDS.mp3?dest-id=499832 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-paul-dermody-podcast-1118028/episodes/221-designing-the-life-i-actually-want-at-36 Duration seconds: 1825 ## Resource My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. I turned 36 two days ago. I'm now closer to 40 than to 30. Instead of sharing lessons, let me share some key words and themes that I want to run through the next chapter of my life, and see if and how they might apply to you. For coaching inquiries, click here. ( https://pauldermody.com/contact/) ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-paul-dermody-podcast-1118028/episodes/221-designing-the-life-i-actually-want-at-36/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-paul-dermody-podcast-1118028/221-designing-the-life-i-actually-want-at-36.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.