# Breaking Toxic Parenting Cycles You May Not Know You're Repeating Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-parent-chat-with-dylan-dreyer-7785004/breaking-toxic-parenting-cycles-you-may-not-know-you-re-repeating Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-parent-chat-with-dylan-dreyer-7785004/breaking-toxic-parenting-cycles-you-may-not-know-you-re-repeating.md Podcast: [The Parent Chat with Dylan Dreyer](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-parent-chat-with-dylan-dreyer-7785004) Published: 2026-05-14T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.nbcnews.com/ Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/tracking.swap.fm/track/WyZndMW35x3t79tHlknd/nbcnews.simplecastaudio.com/335a0022-d1e7-4636-a9c7-7fb2fa843b92/episodes/244eb507-5f50-4b78-97bd-9c76e76f0ad6/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=335a0022-d1e7-4636-a9c7-7fb2fa843b92&awEpisodeId=244eb507-5f50-4b78-97bd-9c76e76f0ad6&feed=IfLkiDmg Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-parent-chat-with-dylan-dreyer-7785004/episodes/breaking-toxic-parenting-cycles-you-may-not-know-you-re-repeating Duration seconds: 1927 ## Resource Clinical psychologist and The Conscious Parent author Dr. Shefali joins Dylan to unpack the childhood patterns most parents are silently passing down to their kids without realizing it. Are you the fixer who does everything so no one suffers? The fighter who learned to blow up from watching your own parents? Or the freezer who shuts down when the overwhelm gets to be too much? Dr. Shefali gets honest about her own cycles too — including the moment her daughter called her out mid-conversation for shaming her instead of just saying no. Plus: why over-apologizing might be doing more harm than good, what pushing music lessons really says about your own unfinished business, and the one question she says every parent should ask their kid today. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-parent-chat-with-dylan-dreyer-7785004/episodes/breaking-toxic-parenting-cycles-you-may-not-know-you-re-repeating/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-parent-chat-with-dylan-dreyer-7785004/breaking-toxic-parenting-cycles-you-may-not-know-you-re-repeating.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.