# 183. If Your Child Gets Stuck in Routines, Please Listen to This... Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ocd-whisperer-podcast-with-kristina-orlova-1214844/183-if-your-child-gets-stuck-in-routines-please-listen-to-this Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ocd-whisperer-podcast-with-kristina-orlova-1214844/183-if-your-child-gets-stuck-in-routines-please-listen-to-this.md Podcast: [The OCD Whisperer Podcast with Kristina Orlova](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ocd-whisperer-podcast-with-kristina-orlova-1214844) Published: 2026-05-08T13:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://ocdwhisperer.podbean.com/e/183-if-your-child-gets-stuck-in-routines-please-watch-this/ Audio file: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/q9xywhwjzk3tzqdp/ep_183_Julie_Lusting_A_ONLYay9fx.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-ocd-whisperer-podcast-with-kristina-orlova-1214844/episodes/183-if-your-child-gets-stuck-in-routines-please-listen-to-this Duration seconds: 1581 ## Resource The Hidden OCD Behind “Normal” Routines in Kids... In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Dr. Julie Lustig, clinical psychologist and founder of CBT Tools for Life Center. Together, they explore how childhood OCD and anxiety often hide in plain sight—and why so many parents miss the early signs. Dr. Lustig opens up about: • Why OCD can take 14–17 years to be properly diagnosed • How common childhood behaviors (like routines) can become rigid compulsions • The most overlooked OCD symptoms—including reassurance-seeking and mental rituals • How Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) helps kids regain control This conversation also dives into: • The subtle ways OCD shows up beyond handwashing or neatness • How to separate a child from OCD using playful, externalizing tools • Why small “wins” and gradual steps are key to recovery OCD isn’t just anxiety—it’s a loop that keeps kids feeling stuck. But as Dr. Lustig explains, when kids learn they don’t have to listen to OCD, everything can change. Whether you’re navigating OCD yourself or supporting a child, this episode offers clarity, tools, and real hope for recovery. 📲 About Dr. Julie Lustig (guest): • Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Founder and Director of the CBT Tools For Life Center • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-l-lustig-ph-d-a30287342/ • Web Page: https://www.cbttoolsforlife.com/ ✂️ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 What actually leads a psychologist to specialise in childhood OCD and anxiety?04:34 The early OCD signs in kids most parents completely miss (and mistake for normal behaviour)06:33 Your child’s “slow routines” might not be habits — hidden OCD symptoms explained09:16 How do you explain OCD to a child without making it scarier? The surprising approach12:21 What OCD recovery… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-ocd-whisperer-podcast-with-kristina-orlova-1214844/episodes/183-if-your-child-gets-stuck-in-routines-please-listen-to-this/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ocd-whisperer-podcast-with-kristina-orlova-1214844/183-if-your-child-gets-stuck-in-routines-please-listen-to-this.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.