# Season 3 Episode 4: We Can’t Hide Our Humanness: Holding Stories and the Cost of Caring

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Podcast: [The NOCE Dose: The Opioid Crisis Unplugged](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-noce-dose-the-opioid-crisis-unplugged-7025858)
Published: 2026-06-09T15:42:13+00:00
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## Resource

In this episode of The NOCE Dose, Bianca D. McCall sits down with Dr. Trudy Gilbert-Elliott, trauma specialist and clinician working alongside first responders and crisis teams, for a deeply human conversation about the cost of caring. From “death by a thousand cuts” to the slow, often invisible onset of secondary trauma, Dr. Trudy unpacks what happens when exposure to crisis becomes cumulative—and how easily helpers can lose connection to themselves in the process. At the heart of this conversation are two powerful truths: we can’t hide our humanness, and too often, we are the only ones keeping someone’s story safe. Together, they explore the importance of psychological safety, trusted relationships, and the internal “checklists” that help us recognize when we’ve crossed the line from present to performing. This episode also highlights the weight of holding others’ stories in isolation—and why healing cannot happen without connection. Grounded in both clinical expertise and lived experience, this conversation is a reminder that being human is not a liability in this work—it’s the very thing that makes healing possible.

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