# Are You Playing Someone Else’s Game? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-next-big-idea-743842/are-you-playing-someone-else-s-game Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-next-big-idea-743842/are-you-playing-someone-else-s-game.md Podcast: [The Next Big Idea](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-next-big-idea-743842) Published: 2026-06-18T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/YAP7051655866.mp3 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/YAP7051655866.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-next-big-idea-743842/episodes/are-you-playing-someone-else-s-game Duration seconds: 4484 ## Resource GPAs. Citations. Step counts. Likes. We love a good metric, don't we? It tells you exactly where you stand, no arguing. Mention a 4.0 to a high schooler and they'll know exactly what you mean. Tell a fellow Fitbit-wearer you just hit 10,000 and they'll nod approvingly. But that clarity has a price. To make a metric that clean, that portable, you have to sand off all the nuance, all the context, everything that made the thing worth measuring in the first place. And philosopher C. Thi Nguyen thinks that's quietly rewiring us. In his book The Score: How to Stop Playing Somebody Else's Game, he argues the metrics we chase have stopped measuring our values and started setting them. 🎬 The Next Big Idea is now on YouTube! You can find our episodes ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠. 📱 Follow Rufus on ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠, subscribe to our ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠, or send us an email at ⁠podcast@nextbigideaclub.com⁠. 🎁 The best way to support the show is by becoming a Next Big Idea Club member. Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠nextbigideaclub.com⁠⁠⁠, and use code PODCAST for a super secret discount (spoiler: it’s 20% off). 🔗 SPONSORED BY: Fora — Build and scale your own travel business by becoming a Fora Advisor today at foratravel.com/idea Northwest Registered Agent — Helping small business owners and entrepreneurs launch and grow businesses for nearly 30 years. Learn more at northwestregisteredagent.com/nbifree Shopify — Launch your business for just $1/month. Start selling today at shopify.com/nbi ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-next-big-idea-743842/episodes/are-you-playing-someone-else-s-game/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-next-big-idea-743842/are-you-playing-someone-else-s-game.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.