# Why Men Lose Themselves to Keep Her Happy (It's Time to STOP) with John Kim

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Podcast: [The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-naked-connection-master-sex-dating-relationships-6662430)
Published: 2026-06-09T10:30:00+00:00
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## Resource

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