# 166. "Makes Me" Mindset, Be Gone

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Podcast: [The Momset Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-momset-podcast-3583074)
Published: 2026-04-21T18:43:50+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tessa-romero/episodes/166--Makes-Me-Mindset--Be-Gone-e3i8foh
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## Resource

I was raised on the "makes me" mindset. " This makes me mad. She makes me ignore her. They make me yell." Then at the good age of 23, about to have my first baby, I realized that this "makes me" concept would ruin my motherhood and surely destroy my family. So, I changed. Now it's 8 years and four children later. I'm thriving, taking full responsibility for who I choose to be- every thought, feeling & action, and it's time for you to detach from the "make me" mindset. Instagram Coaching Inquiries | connect@momset.com Get The Yes Family Flipbook to think and speak positively in your home- even if you've used yelling and name calling. THANK YOU for 1,000,000 downloads on the podcast!! Our mission to be the mom we want to be in any room or group, is spreading thanks to your continued support. I appreciate you! Tessa Romero

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