# Why Success Alone Will Never Fulfill You | Brad Stulberg Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-midlife-chrysalis-7361713/why-success-alone-will-never-fulfill-you-brad-stulberg Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-midlife-chrysalis-7361713/why-success-alone-will-never-fulfill-you-brad-stulberg.md Podcast: [The Midlife Chrysalis](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-midlife-chrysalis-7361713) Published: 2026-05-22T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/themidlifechrysalis/episodes/Why-Success-Alone-Will-Never-Fulfill-You--Brad-Stulberg-e3j2k4h Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/105945268/podcast/play/119672401/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-8%2F423728872-44100-2-48e6b0faf57c4.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-midlife-chrysalis-7361713/episodes/why-success-alone-will-never-fulfill-you-brad-stulberg Duration seconds: 3130 ## Resource You hit your biggest goals… and still feel empty? In this episode, performance expert and bestselling author Brad Stulberg breaks down why success alone doesn’t fulfill us and what actually does. Drawing from his own experience with burnout, mental health struggles, and years of research, Brad shares a powerful new way to think about excellence, purpose, and what it really means to live well. Here are a few key takeaways: Success won’t save you: Chasing outcomes often leaves you feeling just as empty. Excellence is a practice: It’s about who you become, not what you achieve. Consistency beats intensity: Real mastery is built over years, not quick wins. Joy isn’t optional: It’s what makes the journey sustainable. You don’t have to grow from every struggle: Sometimes, surviving is enough If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, or wondering “Is this it?”, this conversation will change how you see success and your path forward. 👉 Watch now and rethink what truly matters. Timestamps: (03:01) What True Excellence Means (04:30) Early Influence and Life Direction (06:25) Mental Health Crisis & Turning Point (12:44) What “Gumption” Actually Means (14:26) Flow State Is Overrated (18:41) Why Joy Beats Discipline (25:14) Why Success Feels Empty (28:45) Enjoying the Process (31:20) Why Midlife Feels Hard (33:12) Finding Purpose Again (36:28) Self-Optimization Culture (41:17) Don’t Be One-Dimensional (44:37) Build a Bigger Life (46:20) Wisdom Bumper Sticker Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/ #excellence #meaningfullife #arrivalfallacy #selfimprovement #personaldevelopment #consistency #joyintheprocess #mastery #purpose #successmindset #mentalhealth #burnoutrecovery #growthmindset #habits #lifelessons ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-midlife-chrysalis-7361713/episodes/why-success-alone-will-never-fulfill-you-brad-stulberg/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-midlife-chrysalis-7361713/why-success-alone-will-never-fulfill-you-brad-stulberg.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.