# The Real Mindset of an Abuser When They Start to Miss You

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Podcast: [The Mental Healness Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-mental-healness-podcast-526019)
Published: 2026-05-27T14:45:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mentalhealness/episodes/The-Real-Mindset-of-an-Abuser-When-They-Start-to-Miss-You-e3jurji
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## Resource

When a toxic, abusive, or controlling ex tells you that they "miss" you, it can completely destabilize your healing process. Your brain wants to believe that they have finally realized your worth, but the behavioral reality is much darker.In this video, I break down the exact psychology of what happens when an abuser starts to miss you. We discuss the concept of a validation deficit, why they selectively romanticize the past, and how their sudden urge to reconnect is driven by a desire to regain control rather than genuine love. Stop breaking your own peace for a temporary ego play.NYC EVENT - www.mentalhealness.net/events All my links - https://link.me/mentalhealness

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