# Episode 219 - Who Am I Now: Identity After Menopause and Cancer Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-menopause-and-cancer-podcast-5554044/episode-219-who-am-i-now-identity-after-menopause-and-cancer Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-menopause-and-cancer-podcast-5554044/episode-219-who-am-i-now-identity-after-menopause-and-cancer.md Podcast: [The Menopause and Cancer Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-menopause-and-cancer-podcast-5554044) Published: 2026-05-27T01:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://menopauseandcancer.org/podcast/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/53ba5b59-07f6-43c2-8f12-a690cbc144ca.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-menopause-and-cancer-podcast-5554044/episodes/episode-219-who-am-i-now-identity-after-menopause-and-cancer Duration seconds: 3064 ## Resource In this very special community conversation, I sit down with a group of incredible women from our Menopause and Cancer community to explore something so many of us struggle with after cancer treatment… identity. I’m so grateful the group allowed me to get this conversation out to you! Lucky us. Who are we now? Together, we talk openly about the physical and emotional changes that can leave us feeling disconnected from ourselves — from body image and confidence, to work, relationships, grief, loss, purpose and rebuilding. Rather than bringing in an expert, I thought it might be best to just have an honest conversation, share experiences and learn from one another. Because the wisdom in our community is WONDERFUL! What became clear throughout this discussion is that so many of us are living in what I call “the messy middle” — no longer who we were before cancer, but not yet fully arrived in who we are becoming. If you’ve ever felt lost, changed, disconnected or uncertain about your place in the world after treatment, this episode is for you. YouTube Wellness Series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLsUEBZ4ZwowoJ0t4pV-gmwGSqruDPm-2P&si=7UE81giK-2v5eByM Episode 214 - What It Really Feels Like & And Your Questions Answered: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/episode-214-what-it-really-feels-like-and-your/id1631842514?i=1000762984322 Episode Highlights: 00:00 Introduction 03:18 Exploring identity and personal growth 07:51 The jar and pebbles analogy 12:31 Coping with treatment and diagnosis 13:49 Discussing challenges of societal expectations 16:47 Struggles with overthinking and doubt 22:47 Facing the unknown post-treatment 23:47 Sharing post-cancer treatment experiences 29:24 Reflecting on life after cancer 32:42 Coping after a mastectomy 35:11 Morning mirror… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-menopause-and-cancer-podcast-5554044/episodes/episode-219-who-am-i-now-identity-after-menopause-and-cancer/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-menopause-and-cancer-podcast-5554044/episode-219-who-am-i-now-identity-after-menopause-and-cancer.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.