# ทำไมเรามองความผิดพลาดของคนอื่น ใหญ่กว่าของเราเอง?  | Tell Me Why EP11

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Podcast: [The MATTER Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-matter-podcast-3597762)
Published: 2026-02-14T17:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

Explore the psychological phenomenon where we judge others harshly for their mistakes while making excuses for our own. This episode breaks down the cognitive biases that create this mental double standard.

## Highlights
- Main idea: The Fundamental Attribution Error causes us to overemphasize personality traits when judging others but situational factors when judging ourselves
- Failure mode: Ignoring the external circumstances of others leads to unfair social judgments and broken relationships
- Practical takeaway: Practicing perspective-taking can help mitigate the bias of judging others' character based solely on their actions
- Main idea: Introspection is often limited, making it harder to see our own situational excuses compared to the visible actions of others
- Practical takeaway: Developing emotional empathy is essential to bridge the gap between how we view ourselves and how we view our peers

## Topics

Psychology, Cognitive Bias, Fundamental Attribution Error, Empathy, Self-Perception, Social Judgment, Behavioral Science, Introspection

## Chapters
- 1:00 — The Double Standard: An introduction to the psychological discrepancy in how we perceive mistakes made by others versus ourselves.
- 6:00 — The Weight of Judgment: Analyzing why we feel intense frustration when witnessing others' errors while remaining lenient toward our own.
- 8:00 — The Fundamental Attribution Error: A deep dive into the cognitive bias that attributes others' actions to character and our own to circumstances.
- 11:00 — The Role of Empathy: Discussing how emotional empathy and understanding context can help reduce judgmental tendencies.
- 14:00 — The Limits of Introspection: Examining why we struggle to recognize our own biases due to the difficulty of observing our own internal motivations.
- 20:00 — Achieving Perspective: Strategies for using perspective-taking to create a more balanced and realistic view of human behavior.

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