# Stop Avoiding Difficult Conversations (Do This Instead) - Jayson Gaddis - 544 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/stop-avoiding-difficult-conversations-do-this-instead-jayson-gaddis-544 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/stop-avoiding-difficult-conversations-do-this-instead-jayson-gaddis-544.md Podcast: [The Jayson Gaddis Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455) Published: 2025-10-01T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaysongaddis/episodes/Stop-Avoiding-Difficult-Conversations-Do-This-Instead---Jayson-Gaddis---544-e38u486 Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/1034ef008/podcast/play/109039302/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-8-30%2F408436297-44100-2-59db478b24c2a.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/episodes/stop-avoiding-difficult-conversations-do-this-instead-jayson-gaddis-544 Duration seconds: 1040 ## Resource Avoiding hard conversations doesn’t make them go away. It builds resentment, distance, and unresolved tension. In this episode, Jayson unpacks why avoiding conflict costs more than it saves, how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and care, and why vulnerability is the key to repair. Timestamps: 1:00 - The cost of not having difficult conversations 7:00 - How to have hard difficult conversations 10:50 - Leading with vulnerability 13:00 - Learning to repair after difficult conversations Links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Relationship School⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Jayson on social media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠ ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/episodes/stop-avoiding-difficult-conversations-do-this-instead-jayson-gaddis-544/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/stop-avoiding-difficult-conversations-do-this-instead-jayson-gaddis-544.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.