# Bypassing Your Feelings: The Biggest Mistake in Divorce

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Podcast: [The Intuitive Divorce: A Better Divorce for Moms](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-intuitive-divorce-a-better-divorce-for-moms-6713897)
Published: 2026-07-13T10:00:28+00:00
Episode link: https://intuitivedivorce.com/blog/bypassing-your-feelings
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Duration seconds: 685

## Resource

Are you doing it again? Stuffing down what you feel, pretending you don't see what you see? I'm here to tell you the biggest mistake in divorce isn't hiring the wrong attorney or fumbling the asset split — it's trying to outrun your feelings. You can run, but you can't hide. In this episode, I'm getting real about why feelings aren't weakness — they're strategy — and why bypassing them puts you at the biggest disadvantage of all. In this episode: - Why the feelings you stuff down don't fade — they fester (and what happens when they finally find a way out) - The one seat at the table nobody else can fill for you — and why your attorney, financial advisor, and therapist can't take it - What "I'm ready to feel" actually unlocks — and how it changes the way you move through your divorce and your life Feelings are meant to be felt. — If you’re a professional, independent mother facing off with divorce, worried about your emotional wellbeing, your kids and your future…and want a better way to navigate it all, here’s how we can help: FREE DIVORCE WORKSHOP BOOK A FREE STRATEGY CALL The Intuitive Divorce Podcast helps mothers navigate the messy waters of divorce to achieve the best outcomes for themselves and their kids. Your host, divorce coach Kristen Noel, explores strategies to engage with lawyers and courts, communicate with and protect your children, apply boundaries with a high-conflict or narcissistic partner, and prepare yourself emotionally and financially for this difficult transition — so you can heal, reclaim your mojo and set yourself up for a beautiful next chapter. Learn more at: intuitivedivorce.com

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