# When the Cheater Puts You on Trial (Why cheaters accuse you first)

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Podcast: [The Infidelity Recovery Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-infidelity-recovery-podcast-6742963)
Published: 2026-06-23T14:26:38+00:00
Episode link: https://mysoundwise.com/episodes/17822233321817581e
Audio file: https://app.mysoundwise.com/tracks/17822233321817581e.mp3
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Duration seconds: 344

## Resource

Why do cheaters sometimes accuse you of cheating before you ever find out what they were doing? In this episode, I’m talking about the confusing and painful dynamic where the person who betrayed you puts you on trial first. Sometimes it’s projection. Sometimes it’s justification. Sometimes it’s manipulation. But either way, their accusation does not mean you caused the betrayal or that you deserved to be treated that way. If you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts, confusion, self-doubt, or trying to make sense of what happened after betrayal, you can book a free call with me and we’ll look at what’s really going on underneath the symptoms. 📞 BOOK A CALL HERE: https://www.jordanapodaca.com/ --------------------------------------------------------------------- JJA Consulting LLC • Fully insured through Alternative Balance LLC • Based in Michigan • Appointments via Zoom • Confidential and results-based. Disclaimer Jordan Apodaca is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. His services are for educational and coaching purposes only and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any mental or medical condition. Individual results vary. If you are in crisis or need clinical support, please reach out to a licensed mental-health provider or emergency services. We do not claim to treat or cure PTSD, depression, anxiety disorders, or any medical or psychological condition. If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts or are in crisis, please contact 988 or local emergency services. Coaching is not appropriate for crisis support. Summary of Terms and Conditions Educational Purpose Only: Coaching and hypnosis appointments are for personal development and educational purposes only. Not Therapy or Medical Treatment: These services are not a substitute…

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