# The Lie of Equal Blame After Infidelity: “We Both Hurt Each Other”

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Podcast: [The Infidelity Recovery Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-infidelity-recovery-podcast-6742963)
Published: 2026-06-07T13:25:56+00:00
Episode link: https://mysoundwise.com/episodes/17808380751058572e
Audio file: https://app.mysoundwise.com/tracks/17808380751058572e.mp3
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Duration seconds: 398

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