# Infidelity Recovery: You’re Not Healing. You’re Just Trying to Be Right.

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Podcast: [The Infidelity Recovery Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-infidelity-recovery-podcast-6742963)
Published: 2026-07-06T15:12:08+00:00
Episode link: https://mysoundwise.com/episodes/17833505622482793e
Audio file: https://app.mysoundwise.com/tracks/17833505622482793e.mp3
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Duration seconds: 678

## Resource

Both betrayed partners and unfaithful partners can fall into the same trap after infidelity: using every video, post, podcast, and expert opinion they find online to prove the other person is the problem. But if the goal is reconciliation, being right is not the same as healing. In this episode, I talk about the difference between accountability and punishment, why betrayal trauma is real but cannot become a blank check for cruelty, and why remorse does not mean the unfaithful partner has to become completely boundaryless. If you’re trying to recover after infidelity and the relationship keeps going in circles, this episode will help you understand what may actually be happening underneath the constant fighting. If you want help healing from betrayal trauma and getting out of the emotional loop, book a free call here: 📞 BOOK A CALL HERE: https://www.jordanapodaca.com/ --------------------------------------------------------------------- JJA Consulting LLC • Fully insured through Alternative Balance LLC • Based in Michigan • Appointments via Zoom • Confidential and results-based. Disclaimer Jordan Apodaca is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. His services are for educational and coaching purposes only and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any mental or medical condition. Individual results vary. If you are in crisis or need clinical support, please reach out to a licensed mental-health provider or emergency services. We do not claim to treat or cure PTSD, depression, anxiety disorders, or any medical or psychological condition. If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts or are in crisis, please contact 988 or local emergency services. Coaching is not appropriate for crisis support. Summary of Terms and Conditions Educational…

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